Does every number with the right number of bits represent a valid private key? That seems doubtful to me.
I think there is a range. I found it on the wiki: Specifically, any 256-bit number between 0x1 and 0xFFFF FFFF FFFF FFFF FFFF FFFF FFFF FFFE BAAE DCE6 AF48 A03B BFD2 5E8C D036 4141 is a valid private key.
The range of valid private keys is governed by the secp256k1 ECDSA standard used by Bitcoin.
CIYAM has the right idea, but is severely hampering the process by providing prompts to the user. The journey I take through my own memory is my own journey that I made up and no one can ever know about (at least not until they get brain-reading equipment), so even if they knew every intimate detail of my life, they still wouldn't know what data I used or what order it was in.
Computers can go through thousands or millions of whatever intimate detail of your life they may have, in thousands or millions of combinations or order. Per second. That's what password cracking is, essentially. They try every combination or order of every detail.
However, as we have seen, such is in diceware word lists, passphrases of 6 to 8 words are:
1. Easy to remember
2. Hard to crack the millions of possible combinations
Still, I personally prefer making completely random passwords. The popular comic book shows an example passphrase as "correct horse battery staple". My completely randomly generated password is more like a bitcoin private or public key in full. This is just my opinion, since I have been able to memorize passwords and passphrases, I just prefer passwords. It contains no link to my life, and I am sure no one else knows them.
More examples of passphrases:
mudd sort writhe five oat adapt
vary cloud mew area astral palm
kink kline pooh geese loin agenda
cheer roy sift amber vicar anode
Example of passwords:
8SUrKCNLdQeG9y7FZ8HMcqcqDhHO9Es1
x6YKPSdvGTcIKyCVPIFAplXrDCb6w8a8
mnVYJfFKu8zeO0Pw9Gv1a405InnzeDGr
A9rwxhJXoE3uD3GqHkjCayQ8jI7vxZKC
Note: I just made this up using software. But now that this is publicly posted, don't use these.
With those, the only recourse is pure brute force. With life details, well, even if it takes a long time, they might get lucky. And if they have you (or someone you love) then of course, rubber hose might work unless you are either willing to die for it, or willing to let someone else die for it. (Or they know you won't die for it, but you can't stand it anymore and break.)