Missing bitcoins after tx & unconfirmed tx, need help.

[KSV]

unconfirmed transaction - be3744d2be312e2e51ed6ac8f8ec5ea5695978ac5f729c52985191b1739cdbca

https://blockchain.info/tx/be3744d2be312e2e51ed6ac8f8ec5ea5695978ac5f729c52985191b1739cdbca

Problem  - unconfirmed transaction

cause    - probably because no fees were attached

solution -

My Satoshi client (BitcoinQt) is in-sync. Its been over 5 hrs now. Any solution will be appreciated. Unfortunately, i did not back up before i made this transaction.

UPDATE - i uploaded the private key onto blockchain to see a shocking new low balance.

After checking i realized that there was a problem with another tx as well. I sent out 50BTC but 89.68 was deducted

My qt shows only -50BTC, as i only sent out -50BTC -

Status: 53 confirmations
Date: 4/3/13 14:51
To: 1JFxQV9eGesx6hn5jLSgdXKPquQLnNF9Cx
Debit: -50.00 BTC
Net amount: -50.00 BTC
Transaction ID: b17bbdd1b9dedbcff9ece48dd0feee7b8f210061f711b8e1d7d8c39c499f4660

but blockchain shows -89.68 BTC

https://blockchain.info/tx/b17bbdd1b9dedbcff9ece48dd0feee7b8f210061f711b8e1d7d8c39c499f4660

where is the remaining 39.68 BTC? How do i get back the remainder?

And the other unconfirmed tx is still unconfirmed has been over 10 hrs now, pls help.

Thanks in advance

[charliemaggot]

First, no fees, no hurry. It might take hours or days. You need to wait.

Second. Change, https://en.bitcoin.it/wiki/Change. It doesn't work like you'd think. You send coins out, more might go than you think but the remainder comes back as change.