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人民日报:天价彩礼成农民小康路上的一大拦路虎
October 29, 2016, 09:28:22 PM
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天价彩礼已成农民小康路上的一大拦路虎。没有一技之长,没有勤劳实干,要再多彩礼,也只能是坐吃山空
近日,山东老家的表哥来电话说:“我和你嫂子又进城干活去了。”表哥今年60岁,再干瓦工,身体能吃得消么?后来得知,两个儿子先后结婚,让本已过上小康生活的表哥,又欠下了一屁股债。
表哥很能干,人缘好,又有手艺,村里谁家盖房都请他,出去打了几年工,很快成了村民中先富起来的人家。有了钱,表哥除了给自己新盖了一处房子,还给俩儿子一人盖了一套房。
没想到,前几年大儿子结婚时,女方家里根本看不上村里的新房,要求在县城买一套两居室,再买一台十几万元的小轿车,再加3斤3两百元大钞(十万元)。为了儿子能讨到媳妇,表哥一咬牙,一一满足了女方条件。不久前轮到老二结婚,彩礼更多。“不能亏了老二啊!”表哥卖了自己住的宅子,搬回旧房,花光积蓄,又东挪西借欠了一屁股债。高高兴兴地迎完亲,为还债又愁眉苦脸地外出打工挣钱去了。
这样的事情,在农村绝非个案。今年初,有记者调查发现,天价彩礼在农村地区较为普遍。黑龙江海伦市,当地彩礼25万到30万元;鲁西南一些农村,讲究“万紫千红一片绿”:1万张5元钞票,1000张百元大钞,50元钞票看着给,彩礼15万元起;河北广平县流行“一二三四五”:一个院落、两层小楼,百元钞票三斤、四轮汽车、男方父母不超五十岁,超过五十岁再加钱……
彩礼本是一种传统民俗,是双方感情的见证。可如今农村彩礼互相攀比,越要越高,导致不少农村家庭苦不堪言,甚至一些家庭债台高筑,因婚致贫。
这些年,农村结婚彩礼水涨船高不断加码。这里面,有互相攀比因素,别人家8万元,我家嫁女至少10万元;更多是观念陈旧,不少人认为嫁出去的女儿“泼出去的水”,养了20年,彩礼就是回报;更有小部分农民把女儿当成“摇钱树”“建设银行”。至于婚后男方债台高筑,女儿嫁过去过得好不好,则不管不顾。
农村结婚彩礼高企已成农民全面小康路上的一大拦路虎。没有小三四十万元媳妇根本进不了家门,这对于多数农民家庭而言,无疑是一项沉重的负担。天价彩礼的泛滥,挑战公序良俗,恶化农村社会风气,加剧家庭矛盾,影响农村稳定。
天价彩礼看似自愿,实则无奈。对此,基层政府应花力气想办法引导解决。绝大多数农民非常朴实,但喜欢要面子。农村嫁女看似喜欢高价彩礼,实则多是“跟风”攀比。要多做些宣传教育,多宣传一些婚礼从简婚后幸福的身边典型,多树立一些结婚不啃老、奋斗致富的年轻夫妇榜样;同时,也要讲那些索要高价彩礼、婚后生活步履维艰的案例,让新婚礼新风尚成为主流,让正风压倒邪气儿。
前几年,各地治理农村红白喜事大操大办,经验颇多,值得借鉴,核心一条就是充分调动农村自治组织的积极性,很多村民对高额彩礼十分反感,要通过制定村规民约,引导彩礼消费回归理性。
彩礼主角——新婚男女青年尤其是女青年,也亟待转变观念。要明白彩礼再多,日子终究要靠自己过。没有一技之长,没有勤劳实干,要再多的彩礼,也只能是寅吃卯粮,坐吃山空。啃老啃不富,更啃不出幸福生活,好日子要靠双手奋斗。
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Re: 人民日报:天价彩礼成农民小康路上的一大拦路虎
October 31, 2016, 02:19:21 PM
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娶不起老婆了
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November 01, 2016, 02:39:08 PM
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穷人才会真要彩礼,而且其实他们也是想生男娃的,但生出个女娃来,长大了嫁出去他们觉得亏,所以会多要些彩礼。。。富人家基本就是倒贴了。。。当然他们也会挑女婿,女婿必须要门当户对的才行。。。尼玛,看透这社会的我,活该单身一辈子啊
从另外角度看,彩礼更像是一道筛选的门槛,一方面剔除家境不好的追求者,一方面变相帮助女儿拥有一笔物质基础
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Re: 人民日报:天价彩礼成农民小康路上的一大拦路虎
November 02, 2016, 03:46:58 AM
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确实现在农村彩礼多啊 媳妇不好娶啊
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November 04, 2016, 09:36:17 AM
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全国人民喜迎天价彩礼
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Re: 人民日报:天价彩礼成农民小康路上的一大拦路虎
November 04, 2016, 10:27:14 AM
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彩礼现在确实是贵啊 老婆都娶不起了
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Re: 人民日报:天价彩礼成农民小康路上的一大拦路虎
November 05, 2016, 03:59:17 PM
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天价房子难道不是吗
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Re: 人民日报:天价彩礼成农民小康路上的一大拦路虎
November 06, 2016, 08:51:03 AM
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彩礼现在在农村确实是个问题 搞不好还娶不到媳妇呢
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November 07, 2016, 08:42:39 AM
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Re: 人民日报:天价彩礼成农民小康路上的一大拦路虎
November 09, 2016, 03:19:05 AM
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Quote from: ... ... on November 01, 2016, 02:39:08 PM
穷人才会真要彩礼,而且其实他们也是想生男娃的,但生出个女娃来,长大了嫁出去他们觉得亏,所以会多要些彩礼。。。富人家基本就是倒贴了。。。当然他们也会挑女婿,女婿必须要门当户对的才行。。。尼玛,看透这社会的我,活该单身一辈子啊
从另外角度看,彩礼更像是一道筛选的门槛,一方面剔除家境不好的追求者,一方面变相帮助女儿拥有一笔物质基础
也不全是如此,落后点的农村这种现象较多,天价彩礼如同卖女儿,开明点的父母可能不看重这些。
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Re: 人民日报:天价彩礼成农民小康路上的一大拦路虎
November 09, 2016, 04:50:51 AM
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前段时间看新闻,有个彩礼排名名单,看得我只咂舌,拿不出礼金婚都难接,现在的社会真是疯了
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Re: 人民日报:天价彩礼成农民小康路上的一大拦路虎
November 11, 2016, 08:51:40 AM
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娶不起成为现状
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