i right click on the bitcoin client. I click on properties but then in that properties window i don't see a box labeled target all i see is security tab, details, previous versions, general, shortcut, compatiblity
Then that isn't a shortcut and is the executable file directly. In whatever you are clicking it on (either the desktop or the file explorer, click somewhere else in the same window (i.e. if on the desktop click somewhere else on the desktop, if in the file explorer click on some whitespace in the file explorer window) so that nothing is highlighted. Then hold Shift and then right click and choose the option for "Open command window here". Then type
bitcoin-qt.exe -zapwallettxes
and hit enter. This will start Core with that option.