If you are ok with me seeing your transaction details I would like to see your log files as it might pin down why these incoming transactions aren't appearing.
The log files don't contain any private keys.
If you could zip up your log directory the location of which is described here:
https://multibit.org/help_troubleshooting.htmland email them to me I will have a look.
My email is here:
https://multibit.org/team.htmlYou should have a nice clean wallet so the logging will be clearer than average.