Have you considered other ways to get money?
...have had success in adult (sex) work but it's all cash.
I don't need judgement, it's almost 2017. Help is appreciated
You should look at certain "judgement" as something positive.
I have a family that has money, my father has money, but I do not live in the shadow of my parents, I fight to get my money and my freedom.
In 2009 when I started looking for ways to make money on the internet I suffered a lot of disappointments and I was the target of many jokes and criticism, but I did not give up and I was able to make money on the internet, at the time I had to profit more than $ 50 a day and then This number has increased a lot, I am raising money to move to my own home, create my company and an orphanage for needy children. So I will be free.
You should not give up, however difficult it may be, but you have to look for ways to get money where people respect you and be proud of you.