living wit family or separate after getting married

[sedrick]

Hi guys... Just wanted to know your opinion which is better living with family or living separately after getting. I get got married recently and there is lot of problems between my mom and wife.... Lot of misunderstanding and they don't seem to sink well. So now my wife wants to go separately n live.... Don't know what to do at this stage I think there will be a lot financial issues and bonding with family members will become less... So I hope for any advice or any suggestions to help me....

[Xester]

Hi guys... Just wanted to know your opinion which is better living with family or living separately after getting. I get got married recently and there is lot of problems between my mom and wife.... Lot of misunderstanding and they don't seem to sink well. So now my wife wants to go separately n live.... Don't know what to do at this stage I think there will be a lot financial issues and bonding with family members will become less... So I hope for any advice or any suggestions to help me....

I have a wife and we are living in the same house with my parents. Well before it is hard since my wife always wanted to get out of the house since she feels being treated badly. But years after she already adjusted to the situation and her mindset on how she look at things has changed also.

But in your situation you really need to get a house of your own. Yes there will be financial issues but you can overcome it, you must also explain to your wife that you will have to do some cost cutting to pay the rent of the house. You will also need to explain carefully to your wife that she must help you find money for the daily needs.

When you are married you made a commitment to your wife in front of the altar. Family bonding with your brothers will no longer be the same again but they will understand.

[Terpercaya]

well if you think the financial issues are not simple problem, then the only way to fix it is: you have to fix the relation between your wife and your parents. seriously, you cannot force your wife and your self into the separate live from parents, which will give you problems of having those financial issues, not yet at least.

is it really hard to fix that twirling relation problem?

[bitcoinboy12]

well if you think the financial issues are not simple problem, then the only way to fix it is: you have to fix the relation between your wife and your parents. seriously, you cannot force your wife and your self into the separate live from parents, which will give you problems of having those financial issues, not yet at least.

is it really hard to fix that twirling relation problem?

While this may really sound simple. I understand how it is not really that EASY. These 2 people are the most important to the person and basically he would never do anything to risk one of them getting mad at him.

[noel2123]

For me, though Im not married yet, it better to live separately with family. It's the time you and your wife own the world, its her castle and she's the queen, she can do whatever she wants because one of the negative effect of it is, you can't move your conscious in everything you do because maybe some eyes were on you watching what are you doing and after that they can say negative or positive about you. And on the positive side is you're many inside the house, you will not get bored. Its just my opinion, there will be always a pros and cons in everything we do.

[PlanetOfBets]

There are two different situations. The first is for the school you read. You will stay away from the family relatively temporarily. In fact, it does not have very conservative effects. Because there is always a return to work. It is strange, but I say that there is a return of pity, but you are in a place where you go because of work, maybe 2-3 years. Enough time to suffocate in the sea of ​​this longing, but the intensity of work for the same university marathon, which may be over 7 years, may not be such a degree. It is normal.

[sedrick]

Hi guys... Just wanted to know your opinion which is better living with family or living separately after getting. I get got married recently and there is lot of problems between my mom and wife.... Lot of misunderstanding and they don't seem to sink well. So now my wife wants to go separately n live.... Don't know what to do at this stage I think there will be a lot financial issues and bonding with family members will become less... So I hope for any advice or any suggestions to help me....

I have a wife and we are living in the same house with my parents. Well before it is hard since my wife always wanted to get out of the house since she feels being treated badly. But years after she already adjusted to the situation and her mindset on how she look at things has changed also.

But in your situation you really need to get a house of your own. Yes there will be financial issues but you can overcome it, you must also explain to your wife that you will have to do some cost cutting to pay the rent of the house. You will also need to explain carefully to your wife that she must help you find money for the daily needs.

When you are married you made a commitment to your wife in front of the altar. Family bonding with your brothers will no longer be the same again but they will understand.

Yes, i have decided to get a separate house because that is the only way the problem will not arise between them. Thank you for your advise but still thinking of the financial issues which is going to fall on my head.

[canah17]

Hi guys... Just wanted to know your opinion which is better living with family or living separately after getting. I get got married recently and there is lot of problems between my mom and wife.... Lot of misunderstanding and they don't seem to sink well. So now my wife wants to go separately n live.... Don't know what to do at this stage I think there will be a lot financial issues and bonding with family members will become less... So I hope for any advice or any suggestions to help me....

Dude.. I hate to tell you the truth but here i go >.< its really bad to stay with your parents and even you're married that's not adult like my friend you have to move i know it has a lot of financial issues you must sacrifice for your wife now and she's your new life now okay? and further more i know it kills you to leave your parents behind but they will support you through out because they are parents and also its a good thing to live separately to have a personal space between you two married couples for your future son so think about what your decision will be and always think wisely before acting it okay? its very important to listen to your wife because she's always right and I wish you marred couples live a happy life and God bless you

[Sithara007]

Living with the parents even after your marriage is not a good idea, in my opinion. If you want to be close to your parents, then you can move to a nearby apartment or villa. But staying together will create unnecessary quarrels and issues.

[gabmen]

Hi guys... Just wanted to know your opinion which is better living with family or living separately after getting. I get got married recently and there is lot of problems between my mom and wife.... Lot of misunderstanding and they don't seem to sink well. So now my wife wants to go separately n live.... Don't know what to do at this stage I think there will be a lot financial issues and bonding with family members will become less... So I hope for any advice or any suggestions to help me....

Well under normal circumstances, once you're married and is starting to have your own family, then you should be getting your own house to move into. Though for some cultures, children can't leave their parents because no one will care for them especially when they grow old. Some live in houses in compounds just to that they could check time to time their parents. Though if you're going to live with your family just because you can't provide your own for yours, then i think that's not a good reason. It would really depend but as much as possible it's best to have a house of your own

[DrPepperJC]

Living with the parents even after your marriage is not a good idea, in my opinion. If you want to be close to your parents, then you can move to a nearby apartment or villa. But staying together will create unnecessary quarrels and issues.

Parents need to love from afar! The generation gap always has to be, but if this conflict interferes with the jealousy it's going to be trouble. The wife always takes his mother the most precious thing that she has this son. Who will put up with this?

[RealBitcoin]

Hi guys... Just wanted to know your opinion which is better living with family or living separately after getting. I get got married recently and there is lot of problems between my mom and wife.... Lot of misunderstanding and they don't seem to sink well. So now my wife wants to go separately n live.... Don't know what to do at this stage I think there will be a lot financial issues and bonding with family members will become less... So I hope for any advice or any suggestions to help me....

Get the fuck out of there. Living with old folks is a disaster, they are annoying nit picking scumbags.

What kind of marriage is that where you live with your parents and wife? Sounds like a kindengarten to me.

Get your own fucking house, and live there with your wife and kids. If not then the wife will probably leave you, because you are such a mama's boy, and then you will probably become a drunk and cry the rest of your life that your wife left you.

[GreenBits]

Hi guys... Just wanted to know your opinion which is better living with family or living separately after getting. I get got married recently and there is lot of problems between my mom and wife.... Lot of misunderstanding and they don't seem to sink well. So now my wife wants to go separately n live.... Don't know what to do at this stage I think there will be a lot financial issues and bonding with family members will become less... So I hope for any advice or any suggestions to help me....

For me if you a married man  you accept the responsibility of being a independent man.So I choose to get separated with your parents.But it depends on you if you want to stay or be separated.

[Sithara007]

Hi guys... Just wanted to know your opinion which is better living with family or living separately after getting. I get got married recently and there is lot of problems between my mom and wife.... Lot of misunderstanding and they don't seem to sink well. So now my wife wants to go separately n live.... Don't know what to do at this stage I think there will be a lot financial issues and bonding with family members will become less... So I hope for any advice or any suggestions to help me....

Get the fuck out of there. Living with old folks is a disaster, they are annoying nit picking scumbags.

What kind of marriage is that where you live with your parents and wife? Sounds like a kindengarten to me.

Get your own fucking house, and live there with your wife and kids. If not then the wife will probably leave you, because you are such a mama's boy, and then you will probably become a drunk and cry the rest of your life that your wife left you.

ROFL... can't explain it any better than this. Those who can't stay away from their parents, must refrain from getting married. Because they are not capable of leading a married life.

[DrPepperJC]

Hi guys... Just wanted to know your opinion which is better living with family or living separately after getting. I get got married recently and there is lot of problems between my mom and wife.... Lot of misunderstanding and they don't seem to sink well. So now my wife wants to go separately n live.... Don't know what to do at this stage I think there will be a lot financial issues and bonding with family members will become less... So I hope for any advice or any suggestions to help me....

Get the fuck out of there. Living with old folks is a disaster, they are annoying nit picking scumbags.

What kind of marriage is that where you live with your parents and wife? Sounds like a kindengarten to me.

Get your own fucking house, and live there with your wife and kids. If not then the wife will probably leave you, because you are such a mama's boy, and then you will probably become a drunk and cry the rest of your life that your wife left you.

ROFL... can't explain it any better than this. Those who can't stay away from their parents, must refrain from getting married. Because they are not capable of leading a married life.

On the one hand it is, on the other hand there are countries where people traditionally live in large families with parents. It is true there is a woman is usually a secondary role and therefore will not complain about the husband's mother.

[loreykyutt05]

Hi guys... Just wanted to know your opinion which is better living with family or living separately after getting. I get got married recently and there is lot of problems between my mom and wife.... Lot of misunderstanding and they don't seem to sink well. So now my wife wants to go separately n live.... Don't know what to do at this stage I think there will be a lot financial issues and bonding with family members will become less... So I hope for any advice or any suggestions to help me....

Get the fuck out of there. Living with old folks is a disaster, they are annoying nit picking scumbags.

What kind of marriage is that where you live with your parents and wife? Sounds like a kindengarten to me.

Get your own fucking house, and live there with your wife and kids. If not then the wife will probably leave you, because you are such a mama's boy, and then you will probably become a drunk and cry the rest of your life that your wife left you.

ROFL... can't explain it any better than this. Those who can't stay away from their parents, must refrain from getting married. Because they are not capable of leading a married life.

On the one hand it is, on the other hand there are countries where people traditionally live in large families with parents. It is true there is a woman is usually a secondary role and therefore will not complain about the husband's mother.

It right to serve to your family first, but some people will leave, it is not about the family, it about your family now. We can separate after getting married, but first, you must settle down you family first before going to have a new family. Nevertheless, we should enjoy our new family.

[BADecker]

Live in 4-story house.

Oldest generation live on first floor.

Next generation, 2nd floor.

Next, 3rd floor.

Top empty unless the family is long lived.

As older generation die out, younger ones move down 1 floor.

No access without invitation.

German way of doing things.

[LTU_btc]

Living with parents after marriage isn't a good idea. It's usual that people leaves their parents house after ending school and starting to study in university or work. Living after weddings with parents isn't good, because parents likes to control and explain how you need to live. You can't live how you want in this way, and it's bad for relationship. It even can end with divorce.
Moving to live separately is expensive. But I think buying a smart flat in not prestigious place is possible. Maybe your parents can help you and give some money? I think they also may want that you with your wife would move to live separately from parents house.

[margarete11]

It think it is good to be with your family if your wife and your family is in good terms however as you said there is conflict between your mom and your wife it will be the best if you will be temporarily separated to them , to cool down the issue and contemplate about what is the issue and how to resolve the issue.

[Sithara007]

On the one hand it is, on the other hand there are countries where people traditionally live in large families with parents. It is true there is a woman is usually a secondary role and therefore will not complain about the husband's mother.

In such cases, there will be no privacy. The couple can have sex only when the parents are out. Also, this can lead to many social issues. In South Asia, it is very common to hear about affairs between father-in-laws and daughter-in-laws.