crap.. it was set automatically by blockchain..
what do i do now.. how do i adjust the fee? i really need this confirmed.. can you help me out somehow??
Click
this link and see if he can get your transaction confirmed for you.
Other than that, if he's offline, you may be able to run a google search to see if you can cancel your transaction. Is this an urgent transaction or not? Otherwise, it'll be returned back to your wallet in a few days anyway if it doesn't et confirmed.
Otherwise, I may be able to find a way to run a double spend and increase the fee on it somehow (but i'm not sure on that).