Okay ur right, but we buy without trust in paypal too, i am myself a seller where people who dont know me buy from me all the time in faith paypal will help.
then continue using Paypal if you are satisfied with the chargeback it has and you are not one of the millions of people who have been scammed because of charge back of Paypal.
Where will somebody from bitcoins help if it goes wrong?
bitcointalk is just a platform that allows people to connect to each other and i don't think they are required to vet everyone that comes in.
I didnt read escrow option but its all complicated I think for person who starts.
just try to learn from this mistake and next time educate yourself before using something new whether it is bitcoin or any other thing you use.
He told me to buy bitcoins from paxful and send i to him and thats what I did.
If somebody is not trustworthy in ur forum, better delete profile of person if he is risky else people coming from organic traffic like me siffer,
well, scammers will be tagged eventually as a warning to others and worse cases i suppose they will be banned if proven.
but the solution is very simple. you use escrow!
you find someone who is trusted and tell him to hold the funds and you make the trade if it went through you tell the escrow to release the funds.
better yet, learn about "multi signature" and use a 2 out of 3 signature with the escrow. in short, that means 2 out of 3 person should sign the transaction for it to go through, it can be either escrow and seller or escrow and buyer, that way you don't have to put any trust on escrow either.