Afaik once it got rejected by the node it should come back to your wallet. Have you check your balance?
The situation here is that Blockchain.info decided to exclude out your transaction. The situation varies across the nodes and most of the node has likely not dropped your transaction.
The transaction will not even be propagated and shown in the wallet if its actually rejected by nodes due to the violation of protocol rules etc.
You can remove your transaction manually and try to create another transaction. If most of the nodes have dropped your transaction, the new transaction would get propagated well.