I tried to do cpfp with the 5$ fee because it took so much time i freaked out.
I figured as much. You shouldn't just randomly do CPFP, it needs careful examination for the appropriate fee-rate (otherwise you may either over or under pay). There is also no reason to freak out, either your transaction confirms or it doesn't (it eventually *drops* from the network). The next block that ViaBTC mines should confirm your first transaction.
As lauda has said, it looks like you have encountered a minor error when making transactions, which should be properly reviewed and corrected. Your transactions are really messy. That is for it can not confirm, although you paid a very high fee, however it can not be fast, and I think the error is in you.
This post was not necessary.