Seems like the transaction has dropped from everywhere now... If you reset the blockchain within the wallet and wait... it will take a LONG time... I just clicked it, then opened the "messages" window...
Stopping Bitcoin network connection...
Synchronising with network...
Synchronising with network, 458,169 block(s) to download. Block date : "Mar 25, 2009".
Synchronising with network, 453,541 block(s) to download. Block date : "May 5, 2009".
Synchronising with network, 448,913 block(s) to download. Block date : "Jun 24, 2009".
Synchronising with network, 444,285 block(s) to download. Block date : "Sep 9, 2009".
Synchronising with network, 439,657 block(s) to download. Block date : "Nov 15, 2009".
Synchronising with network, 435,029 block(s) to download. Block date : "Dec 27, 2009".
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So it looks like it is slowing crawling the blockchain looking for transactions... if yours does the same, it should eventually come back with all your coins and you can attempt a re-send... with a proper fee... be warned tho... fees are currently MASSIVE!
The current best transaction fees 252 Satoshis/byte | 0.00252 BTC/KB
The fastest and cheapest transaction fee is currently 450 satoshis/byte, shown in green at the top.
Good luck