Seems these threads are popping with alarming frequency. Its important to include the correct fee or risk staying stuck as unconfirmed for insane amounts of time. Unfortunately as it is now there is nothing any of us can do about the increasing price of the "correct" fee.
In your next transaction, Please use this site regarding miner fees:
https://bitcoinfees.21.co to avoid stucked transactions .
This is where you can see what the "correct" fee is and it gives estimates based on how quickly you want it confirmed. They are based on the size of the transaction in bytes, you will need a wallet that calculates it for you before you send it.
Or since both of your transaction has a fee of .0001 which is the minimum fee required to use viabtc . You can use it:
https://www.viabtc.com/tools/txaccelerator/ . Just try every hour until they accept your transaction .
viabtc used to be good option but I have never not seen it full in the last days, because of the congestion too many people are resorting to it.
Eventually the transaction will be refunded to the address you sent it from, no bitcoin is ever lost, only private keys can be lost.
