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让孩子决定自己的饥饱:“问问你的小肚子,饱了没?”
June 04, 2017, 03:32:56 AM
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让孩子决定自己的饥饱:“问问你的小肚子,饱了没?”
“喂饭”很容易成为隔代养育的吵架诱因。老人怕孩子没吃饱,影响身体发育,妈妈觉得追着喂饭特别不好,但不好在哪里也说不太清楚。吵来吵去,不如问问孩子吧。
“喂饭”是大家经常讨论的养育话题,年轻的父母大多反对喂饭,年长的祖辈却对此颇为保留。我曾经听老人家交流自己带孙辈的感受,一位外婆抱怨女儿不让自己给外孙喂饭,孩子不吃竟然随他饿着。旁边一位爷爷表示认同:“年轻人不懂,迷信那些国外的育儿方法,其实根本不实用,他们忘记了自己还不是我们喂大的。”
“喂饭”成了两代人养育孩子的重大分歧。相对其他的育儿问题,比如让孩子学会自己洗脸刷牙,穿衣穿鞋,家人间比较容易达成统一的意见。唯有喂饭,老人家很难放得下,甚至一些年轻的妈妈也放不下,到底为什么呢?
老人家喂饭无非是为了让孩子吃饱,吃好,身体健康,担心孩子自己不知道吃多吃少。所以“喂饭”的根本原因是不信任孩子,大人认为孩子不知饥饱,所以该吃什么,该吃多少,都应该由大人来安排,小孩子自己是不懂的。
实际上被喂大的孩子,由于他们从来不需要知道该吃多少,饱了没饱,所以长大以后,真的会落下不知饥饱的毛病。我一亲戚的女儿从小被喂饭,长大后有个坏毛病,遇到喜欢吃的菜,会盯着吃没有节制,一直吃到吐为止。
要真正放下“喂饭”这件事,我们必须信任孩子。婴儿期,奶喝饱了宝宝就停下来不再吮吸,可见,宝宝从出生起就知道自己该吃多少。宝宝一岁多,开始自己学习吃饭了,我们可以有意识地让孩子学会表达“饱了”。引导孩子问一问自己的小肚肚,吃饱了吗?一旦孩子有明确表示“饱了”,大人就不要再劝导诱惑逼迫孩子继续吃了,要让孩子真正体会“饱了”的感受,真正明白“饱了”代表着不需要再吃了。
孩子说饱了,如果我们回应他:“吃这么一点,怎么会饱呢?”、“我知道你没吃饱,再吃一点。”……那么孩子的表达就失去了意义,孩子会认为他的感受不正确,他的表达不算数,久而久之,他就会关闭自己的感觉,封锁自己的感受,依赖他人来决定自己的饥饱。
这样,孩子长大以后,不知饥饱的状况不仅会反映在饮食上,还会反映在生活工作的其他各个方面,不知道自己要什么,也不知道自己适合做什么。
“问问你的小肚子,饱了吗?”就这样开始,让孩子学会决定自己的饥饱吧。
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Re: 让孩子决定自己的饥饱:“问问你的小肚子,饱了没?”
June 04, 2017, 08:55:06 AM
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我小时候也是被强行喂饭
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Re: 让孩子决定自己的饥饱:“问问你的小肚子,饱了没?”
June 04, 2017, 10:20:36 AM
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楼上说得对
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