The problem is my country here where I can not use any of payment method to send money abroad . but still I can send Friend and Family payment and not you can send me when when you want but we can decide the price first .
yes I have one option to buy some with my credit card but very little amount to build the trust
what you think ?
I've probably bought close to $1k in paypal off people on this forum, i have no problem accepting from them because they are trustworthy and this is demonstrated from their past trades and positive trust.
However, you as a newbie is wanting to exchange funds in a reversible payment processor for funds in an irreversible one. This is extremely shady behaviour, especially when you're asking for close to 1 bitcoin. You being able to send the money first seems to only make matters worse to me, it seems like that you don't care about losing a few hundred because you can chargeback or worse yet, you're operating on a hacked account in the first place.
Withdraw the btc to your bank. Go onto localbitcoins, search for your country, and select bank transfer. Easy. You'll get more btc for your dollar that way.
BTW, friends and family is still reversible if account was hacked.