I'm sorry but with your trust no one will send first to you.
And escrow in this particular case doesn't protect the one who's sending BTC as you said before the last time you tried to trade you chargebacked the funds, what if you do it again while holding the bitcoins ? Venmo is a Paypal company, you have no previous trading history regarding any kind of reversible methods.
You make it sound like I went out of my way to screw somebody over, the guy scammed me, and then everyone from here was kind enough to chime in and let me know he was a known scammer. I hassled the F out of Square for several hours before they ever responded, but only because I hadnt recievd the coins for several hours.
As I said above, I know this place is super tight, but check whatever Ive done negative on these boards, nothing involves ever trying to scam.
Just little girly men thinking I seemed suspicious they got a little tummy rumble so they posted neg info.
Not sure why I am even having this convo. Thanks again.