its funny to see what you guys write here. I wonder how many actually have a girlfriend
Ok, I'll try to help you out here a bit.
Well, first girls are different in ways (but same in most I guess) so ofc there are differences in taste, but what generally will work:
- Being confident in yourself and give of a vibe of somebody who can take care of himself and her (more on confidence at the end)
- Be really good in bed. Don't make it short and about you. Worst thing ever.
- go to gym at least a little or just do something physical, you dont have to be some gym freak, most women don't need to have a guy with 6 pack (though never hurts) and try to
take care of yourself so you are not too smelly, dirty and awkward (if you are) - watch a youtube video or go ask sb to help you out, if you feel particularly hopeless here.
- make her feel like she is beautiful, but not in a drooling pathetic way
- have your own life and dont come jumping like a puppy, really nothing is more of a turn off (for anyone) than somebody who is being pathetic and doesn't have a speck of respect
for themselves.
- imo not as important as having money is knowing how to make money, if you just got money from getting btc when cheap or inherited it, its really not that cool as being a self
made person
- funny is cool, it works, but you don't have to be super funny to get girls. Like if you are super unattractive and really funny, they will like you, but as a friend.
- also being persistent helps a lot, many times the one that never gives up is the one who wins (but of course there has to be some sort of potential of success and there is line where it becomes stalking, so nothing creepy like that) , in general women really appreciate if you don't react too much to their bursts of bad mood or something and are able to keep them calm, cuz their hormones are fucked up and they cant help it, but you can, you don't bleed from your dick every month (if you do, you should get that checked).
There, that should help a bit, but I think if you just generally work on yourself - anything dopamine inducing - sports, entrepreneurship, playing an instrument/singing or doing some other art/craft/skill or generally pursuing something and trying to be good at it, will not only give you confidence, but sense of purpose and stability, which is something that is always attractive.
Good luck!
