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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
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September 05, 2017, 11:00:24 AM |
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I had big debt before, but I didn't make that debt with gambling. Its a long story, but my only way out was stopping with everything and concentrating on work and paying back my debt. After work I don't go and have fun, if I'm not tired I go to walk but without buying ice creams, juices, coffees, or anything else. For months I spent money just on necessary things like food, transportation to work, and bills, the rest of the money went in saving to pay out the debt. Was it easy? Not at all, when you have money and habits its hard to change them for something not so good and interesting.
Just weak people think about suicide, they can't handle the pressure. Strong people will work 2 or 3 jobs and live with minimal cost as long as they are in debt, after months or years debt can be paid off. That is the best legal and honest way to get out from debts, and it worked for me. About other ways I don't wish to discuss, I been there and I know what kind of thoughts can come in mind, don't let them to pull you in deeper problems. Do you know about saying " It can't be worst then this", well it can remember that!
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September 05, 2017, 03:04:18 PM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
If you are on big debt and as an addicted gambler then you should completely stop and dont tend to play even more and speaking with those debts you should seek out help from others either on your relatives,family or friends for sure they would really understand your situation as of now and would help you out.The solution would really be on yourself,if you are really serious on quitting and plan to changed your life then you can definitely do such thing. |
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September 05, 2017, 03:29:23 PM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
I'm not in that state but I know some people who lost everything in gambling addiction even their own life. One of the best example is what happened in the Philippines : http://cnnphilippines.com/news/2017/06/03/resorts-world-manila-timeline.htmlMaybe they can't cope up with their sadness that's why they have made something like that but it's a reminder for all of us that like drugs the gambling industry is a pretty dangerous are, without self discipline and control you might one of the people who will go nuts and just go stealing and killing other people just to survive. Last year when Ive lost almost 3000 dollars due to sports betting and have some issues financially I've realized that there are much more important than your own addiction like family. If you realized that your love ones and your life is at stake then maybe you can have some courage to control your addiction not just in gambling. |
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September 05, 2017, 04:24:30 PM |
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It's depend on gambler's religion and family support since that the most important in order to recover their mental before getting worse
Of course , it's need some time to pay their debt but with healthy mind, everything will go smooth later
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swissguy (OP)
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September 05, 2017, 04:33:27 PM |
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It's depend on gambler's religion and family support since that the most important in order to recover their mental before getting worse
Of course , it's need some time to pay their debt but with healthy mind, everything will go smooth later
what you wanna say if someone have debt like 10k and he is jobless ? |
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September 05, 2017, 04:36:55 PM |
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It's depend on gambler's religion and family support since that the most important in order to recover their mental before getting worse
Of course , it's need some time to pay their debt but with healthy mind, everything will go smooth later
what you wanna say if someone have debt like 10k and he is jobless ? I would say, go get a job! Or maybe buy a lottery ticket... I don't know? |
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September 05, 2017, 04:53:54 PM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
It is a sad predicament he is in, but nothing really we can do about his money debts. If there would be good people that could try and pay off his debts then that is the best thing for him. However, the root of the problem has not been solved. The problem here is that he is an addicted gambler and he does not even want to work to pay off his debts then we cannot do anything about him. |
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September 05, 2017, 05:01:08 PM |
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It's depend on gambler's religion and family support since that the most important in order to recover their mental before getting worse
Of course , it's need some time to pay their debt but with healthy mind, everything will go smooth later
Doesn't makes any sense to relate it with religion  . Just stop it immediately whenever you think you have crossed the limit and loaing control. Don't think or even never think to recover your lost , it was the biggest mistake that common people always did. |
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September 05, 2017, 05:02:24 PM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
It is a sad predicament he is in, but nothing really we can do about his money debts. If there would be good people that could try and pay off his debts then that is the best thing for him. However, the root of the problem has not been solved. The problem here is that he is an addicted gambler and he does not even want to work to pay off his debts then we cannot do anything about him. it would be a miracle if someone suddenly arrived and paid off all the debts he had, but this would be impossible because rarely is there anyone who can help the gambler regardless of the debt winding that he is suffering except for his parents who helped him |
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September 05, 2017, 05:13:14 PM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
It is a sad predicament he is in, but nothing really we can do about his money debts. If there would be good people that could try and pay off his debts then that is the best thing for him. However, the root of the problem has not been solved. The problem here is that he is an addicted gambler and he does not even want to work to pay off his debts then we cannot do anything about him. it would be a miracle if someone suddenly arrived and paid off all the debts he had, but this would be impossible because rarely is there anyone who can help the gambler regardless of the debt winding that he is suffering except for his parents who helped him IN real time it is not possible, nowadays there is no helping nature like this. People all become selfish if they have enough money also they will not help others who are in trouble. So as you said the parents or brothers or sisters only the family members can help. The friends and other people just give free advice nobody will help. |
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September 05, 2017, 05:26:12 PM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
It is a sad predicament he is in, but nothing really we can do about his money debts. If there would be good people that could try and pay off his debts then that is the best thing for him. However, the root of the problem has not been solved. The problem here is that he is an addicted gambler and he does not even want to work to pay off his debts then we cannot do anything about him. it would be a miracle if someone suddenly arrived and paid off all the debts he had, but this would be impossible because rarely is there anyone who can help the gambler regardless of the debt winding that he is suffering except for his parents who helped him IN real time it is not possible, nowadays there is no helping nature like this. People all become selfish if they have enough money also they will not help others who are in trouble. So as you said the parents or brothers or sisters only the family members can help. The friends and other people just give free advice nobody will help. So that's why when you start gambling you have to make sure that you will not go deeply involve in it otherwise you'll end up losing just like most gamblers do. Because once you started getting debts it will grow like a cancer in which nobody can help you even your own family until you'll be left alone. This will get you in a really bad situation and your world would become smaller. |
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September 05, 2017, 05:49:35 PM |
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Perhaps, for people who are in great debt to someone and he has always been billing you, maybe you can borrow money back to your friends to pay off your debts. At least your debt to the man you paid, and your debt to your friend you just made and you can ask time for your friend to pay. That's how many people do here.
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September 05, 2017, 06:39:16 PM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
Before I knew bitcoin I was a fiat gambler. I had a lot of loans too and it felt so sick if I remembered my past experience. If my father didn't pay all of my loans, idk what kind of life will I get today. After I got out of debt, I left gambling and try not to involve in it anymore. Time goes by until I read about bitcoin and it lead me to the world of gambling again. But nowadays I came with different point of view. I won't let gambling to take over my mind anymore. I don't want to get rich from it. I treat gambling as a game only and not as a way to get money. So for people who still in debt, consider to ask the help from your relatives especially from your parents. If you try to pay all your debts with gambling, then the results will be even worse. Your debt will be increasingly mounting and will be difficult to overcome. |
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September 05, 2017, 07:35:01 PM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
It is a sad predicament he is in, but nothing really we can do about his money debts. If there would be good people that could try and pay off his debts then that is the best thing for him. However, the root of the problem has not been solved. The problem here is that he is an addicted gambler and he does not even want to work to pay off his debts then we cannot do anything about him. it would be a miracle if someone suddenly arrived and paid off all the debts he had, but this would be impossible because rarely is there anyone who can help the gambler regardless of the debt winding that he is suffering except for his parents who helped him IN real time it is not possible, nowadays there is no helping nature like this. People all become selfish if they have enough money also they will not help others who are in trouble. So as you said the parents or brothers or sisters only the family members can help. The friends and other people just give free advice nobody will help. It's possible but the chances of someone helping you with that kind of reason is close to zero. Not all people are selfish the much better term here would be most people because I still see a few people doing random act of kindness towards people they don't even know like BiPolarBob here in forum who randomly pays loan of other users. |
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September 05, 2017, 07:47:17 PM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
For anybody in gambling to have gotten so deep to this extent means its not longer a joke. I also know someone personally who faced similar situation and what was done for him was family members came to his aid and was put under serious observation to purge him out of the feeling of gambling completely and gradually became a normal person never to tow that part again. |
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September 05, 2017, 08:02:20 PM |
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Definately get professional help..
If you got balls deep into debt one way or another, it is very likely that it will happen again or even worse.
Professionals can help you analyze and realize your own behaviour so you can make the proper adjustments to it.
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September 05, 2017, 08:06:41 PM |
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It's depend on gambler's religion and family support since that the most important in order to recover their mental before getting worse
Of course , it's need some time to pay their debt but with healthy mind, everything will go smooth later
My advice on this current situation here is to change the way of life of a gambler's problem of a debt that is presently causing such circumstances like this. Mental problems could be getting worst if the family doesn't have any support for the person affected, and the person should be encouraged to take a stand for so that the debts will be paid. Sometimes it gets worsen and it may lead that a person will commit suicide when ha couldn't handle the pressure of the debts because of gambling. Positive minds is the best ways to do it, and that gambling that caused debts should be stopped while within the process of solving the debts. |
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September 06, 2017, 01:51:40 AM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
For anybody in gambling to have gotten so deep to this extent means its not longer a joke. I also know someone personally who faced similar situation and what was done for him was family members came to his aid and was put under serious observation to purge him out of the feeling of gambling completely and gradually became a normal person never to tow that part again. Yes, only family members can help these kinds of fully addicted gamblers. It is not so easy job for family members because they need to watch these guys very closely otherwise they may again go to gambling if they get a chance. That's they first need to take professional help to remove gambling from their mind completely without that it is hard to control addicted gamblers. |
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September 06, 2017, 02:43:12 AM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
My boss was once in debt due to gambling, it had occurred to him to end his life. Fleeing out of town far as can, the family he left behind accept the risk that he did. My boss was contacted by his brother about his wife and son being beaten by debt collectors. My boss struggled to work day and night 4 full days without sleep with drugs to pay off the debt he made. He said to me, don't make trouble in gambling with debt because the impact will befall your family. That point I take is family, life spirit is family. |
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