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September 24, 2017, 04:31:32 AM |
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Debt is really a big trap. A smart gambler have to be careful and control him self to not get addicted and drown i debts. Paying back people is not easy especially when they owe you big amount of money.
that's why its not advisable to borrowed money when you are going to play gambling, its really a risky move coming from a gambler, he can't focus he's mind thinking if how can he pay it if he lose it there, i still believe that we should treat gambling as a sort of entertainment so we can only use our owned money something that we can afford to lose. You know that is really wrong to get a loan for the sake gambling. But still you do it however right? It is an addiction which drive you to always doing the same mistakes . You cannot really handle it unless if you do have a babkroll management and selfcontrol in every single day you do gamble.
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September 24, 2017, 06:35:35 AM |
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Some of my friends are in great debt because of gambling and I have seen how far it'll go if they won't be able to return their loans. One of them tried to end his life but fortunately his family saved him and he's fine now. But still think of gambling and it's really hard for him to leave.
The problem with gambling addiction is that you end your life and whatever but as you get any funds you will do the first thing called as "gambling" again because of the simple fact that you just want to win back everything. I have myself been a gambling addict but what happened good to me was I used to win a lot. Then came a time that our country banned gambling and that actually saved me from potential loss.
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September 24, 2017, 07:00:20 AM |
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in my opinion, when gamblers lose in gambling and they still want to keep playing, they will do various ways to keep playing. one of them is by way of debt. they dare to debt, because they believe will win and can return their debt. but in my opinion, if lost at the moment, it is better to just retreat, dont continues the gambling with the way of debt.
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JL421
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September 25, 2017, 04:00:51 PM |
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If we are depressed by debt, maybe we can do a smart little cunning way. Let's borrow money from friends, siblings or anyone else to pay off your old debts. Maybe you still have a debt but at least you have more time to pay.
This is no solution to any debts we are just building more debts for yourself if you want to clear a debt you need to sell of your assets or find a better job taking another loan to pay a previous debt will keep on increasing and finally you will have no option but to quit your life or go to the jail
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September 25, 2017, 04:22:10 PM |
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Some of my friends are in great debt because of gambling and I have seen how far it'll go if they won't be able to return their loans. One of them tried to end his life but fortunately his family saved him and he's fine now. But still think of gambling and it's really hard for him to leave.
The problem with gambling addiction is that you end your life and whatever but as you get any funds you will do the first thing called as "gambling" again because of the simple fact that you just want to win back everything. I have myself been a gambling addict but what happened good to me was I used to win a lot. Then came a time that our country banned gambling and that actually saved me from potential loss. i think it is still could give you addiction problem no matter you are living in a country where gambling are banned , you can easily access it through online gambling , don't you do it now? i don't believe if you never gamble online as you said you have won a lot in gambling. you will always try to make money through the same instant way. and to get loan are your shortcut way when you run out of money.
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audaciousbeing
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September 25, 2017, 05:36:21 PM |
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If anybody is in debt because of gambling the it's your fault and no one else, not the community and surely not the site you play but its basically because of lack of self control. When I hear people run into debt because of gambling, I just imagine how that is possible if there is self restraint. I don't think I can get involved to the point of betting all that I have, and then still go out to borrow from people to still play. When someone do something like that, they should be sentenced to remand homes for the rest of their lives because they have not only fail themselves but also failed humanity and so they lose the morality to live among rational thinking individuals. Some of my friends are in great debt because of gambling and I have seen how far it'll go if they won't be able to return their loans. One of them tried to end his life but fortunately his family saved him and he's fine now. But still think of gambling and it's really hard for him to leave.
The problem with gambling addiction is that you end your life and whatever but as you get any funds you will do the first thing called as "gambling" again because of the simple fact that you just want to win back everything. I have myself been a gambling addict but what happened good to me was I used to win a lot. Then came a time that our country banned gambling and that actually saved me from potential loss. i think it is still could give you addiction problem no matter you are living in a country where gambling are banned , you can easily access it through online gambling , don't you do it now? i don't believe if you never gamble online as you said you have won a lot in gambling. you will always try to make money through the same instant way. and to get loan are your shortcut way when you run out of money.
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September 25, 2017, 07:28:29 PM |
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Some of my friends are in great debt because of gambling and I have seen how far it'll go if they won't be able to return their loans. One of them tried to end his life but fortunately his family saved him and he's fine now. But still think of gambling and it's really hard for him to leave.
The problem with gambling addiction is that you end your life and whatever but as you get any funds you will do the first thing called as "gambling" again because of the simple fact that you just want to win back everything. I have myself been a gambling addict but what happened good to me was I used to win a lot. Then came a time that our country banned gambling and that actually saved me from potential loss. i think it is still could give you addiction problem no matter you are living in a country where gambling are banned , you can easily access it through online gambling , don't you do it now? i don't believe if you never gamble online as you said you have won a lot in gambling. you will always try to make money through the same instant way. and to get loan are your shortcut way when you run out of money. This is true,we can freely access gambling sites with the use of VPN which no one would able to trace us that we are playing gambling online even if our government would really restrict us on playing it. Having debts is just a common problem on most gambler which some of them end up on suicide because they cant repay those debts.
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September 25, 2017, 09:43:21 PM |
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If we are depressed by debt, maybe we can do a smart little cunning way. Let's borrow money from friends, siblings or anyone else to pay off your old debts. Maybe you still have a debt but at least you have more time to pay.
This is no solution to any debts we are just building more debts for yourself if you want to clear a debt you need to sell of your assets or find a better job taking another loan to pay a previous debt will keep on increasing and finally you will have no option but to quit your life or go to the jail Maybe he's talking about borrowing from friends without interest and that way you can easily offset your old debts but create a new one which you'd have a longer time to pay. That's my understanding of what he said.
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September 26, 2017, 01:39:02 AM |
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If we are depressed by debt, maybe we can do a smart little cunning way. Let's borrow money from friends, siblings or anyone else to pay off your old debts. Maybe you still have a debt but at least you have more time to pay.
This is no solution to any debts we are just building more debts for yourself if you want to clear a debt you need to sell of your assets or find a better job taking another loan to pay a previous debt will keep on increasing and finally you will have no option but to quit your life or go to the jail Maybe he's talking about borrowing from friends without interest and that way you can easily offset your old debts but create a new one which you'd have a longer time to pay. That's my understanding of what he said. Paying a loan with another loans (even though with no interest at all ) won't help us by the way. We should make money through hard work to know how hard to get money is. Therefore, it will give us a valuable lesson. In the hope, next time we won't go to the same hole again.
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rjbtc2017
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September 26, 2017, 02:07:47 AM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life. I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
To all people who have been experiencing this kind of situation I am sincerely want you to know that you can still get up and go back on track on life. As For me, I didn't get a loan for gambling, everything that I've wasted on gambling is hard earned money that's why the emotional suffering is very long and tiring but it is only a simple decision that changed my life and that is to STOP and from that decision everything changed. For the people who are in debt. Decide to stop playing, find a regular job and slowly pay your debts, yes it is really hard but i assure you from that decision you will start to change your life slowly, it will be worth it.
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September 26, 2017, 11:44:57 AM |
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If we are depressed by debt, maybe we can do a smart little cunning way. Let's borrow money from friends, siblings or anyone else to pay off your old debts. Maybe you still have a debt but at least you have more time to pay.
This is no solution to any debts we are just building more debts for yourself if you want to clear a debt you need to sell of your assets or find a better job taking another loan to pay a previous debt will keep on increasing and finally you will have no option but to quit your life or go to the jail Maybe he's talking about borrowing from friends without interest and that way you can easily offset your old debts but create a new one which you'd have a longer time to pay. That's my understanding of what he said. Paying a loan with another loans (even though with no interest at all ) won't help us by the way. We should make money through hard work to know how hard to get money is. Therefore, it will give us a valuable lesson. In the hope, next time we won't go to the same hole again. Yeah that is correct, and people that try to gamble so they can pay debts, or they think that it could be their ticket out of poverty. But the problem is that is just an illusion gambling has been showing us. It is a mirage. We cannot rely on what gambling shows because it is all too good to be true. The chances anyone can win and be rich just like that is so slim.
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September 26, 2017, 02:48:57 PM |
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we know that many people in debt because of gambling and their property is sold because of gambling this person is addicted. and this person is needed of rehabilitation by advice and counselling. and when this person is close to you give an advice, and take him to the groups where he will enjoyable with pleasure and bring happiness to forget it, and she realizes her mistake.
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September 26, 2017, 02:55:35 PM |
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One of our family member is in debt right now because of gambling and as much as I want to help out of it I want him to learn from his mistakes and hoping the one day he will not let his gambling addiction in control of his life. He lost every property he have now and I really feel bad about it.
first piece of advice, never give them a free pass out of their situation. this serves no purpose but to enable them to continue. of course, they might not take it as such and go on to turn over a new leaf, but with most addicts, this is almost never the case. helping them out of their situation is handing them a free pass; you drag them out of the hole theyve dug themselves into, and they don't learn, their mind is focused on feeding their addiction and nothing else. if anything, theyll use to chance to just repeat their mistake on a larger scale, until no one else can help them. by all means, no harm in giving them a push in the right direction, but don't give them a free pass, especially for family and friends. big rule to follow with money: never loan to friends or family, chances are you wont get it back.
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September 26, 2017, 06:56:05 PM |
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I am not one of those who had been in big debt due to gambling but i know someone very dear to me who had these kind of experience. It wasn't that easy. There were restless days and nights and even nightmares especially when you have debt on some sort of sindicate. But it will be helpful when your family, relatives or even friends would keep themselves at your back even after these time when you seriously messed up your life. They will be your strenght in finding a way to fulfill the obligations that you have because of your addiction, but expect that avoiding gambling as a way wouldn't be as easy as you think. It was already part of your system and it was you who are in debt can stop yourself from gambling again aside from the advices, encouragement, help and support that you will get from your loved ones..
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September 26, 2017, 09:12:25 PM |
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in my opinion, when gamblers lose in gambling and they still want to keep playing, they will do various ways to keep playing. one of them is by way of debt. they dare to debt, because they believe will win and can return their debt. but in my opinion, if lost at the moment, it is better to just retreat, dont continues the gambling with the way of debt.
When a person fails to win the desired amount o money and keeps on losing again and again, then he undergoes a massive amount of depression and guilt as well. It becomes so difficult for him to digest the reality and therefore he opts for taking debts to continue playing gambling as he hopes to win back all his losses as well as the additional profits in favor to continue with his habit.
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September 26, 2017, 09:29:40 PM |
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in my opinion, when gamblers lose in gambling and they still want to keep playing, they will do various ways to keep playing. one of them is by way of debt. they dare to debt, because they believe will win and can return their debt. but in my opinion, if lost at the moment, it is better to just retreat, dont continues the gambling with the way of debt.
When a person fails to win the desired amount o money and keeps on losing again and again, then he undergoes a massive amount of depression and guilt as well. It becomes so difficult for him to digest the reality and therefore he opts for taking debts to continue playing gambling as he hopes to win back all his losses as well as the additional profits in favor to continue with his habit. The cycle continues if he did won such borrowed money from other and could able to repay those but what if we do mention on the opposite side which is what if he lose those money?For sure he would increase or add up more on his depression which would lead up again on borrowing money for hoping that he would be lucky this time.No, its really a bad idea on having or thinking on this kind of solution instead you are making or arranging things up you would surely mess it instead.
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jossiel
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September 26, 2017, 09:47:32 PM |
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Gaining happiness from big loss isn't an instant thing, it's a process that someone needs to go through. The feeling of being a depressed gambler is hard to deal with.
If you are aware on this feeling or you are experiencing this right now, you must go seek your parents as they are the one that will understand you and will never blame you with your wrong doings.
They are the best people that can give you happiness, trust me.
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September 27, 2017, 08:20:42 AM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life. I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
To all people who have been experiencing this kind of situation I am sincerely want you to know that you can still get up and go back on track on life. As For me, I didn't get a loan for gambling, everything that I've wasted on gambling is hard earned money that's why the emotional suffering is very long and tiring but it is only a simple decision that changed my life and that is to STOP and from that decision everything changed. For the people who are in debt. Decide to stop playing, find a regular job and slowly pay your debts, yes it is really hard but i assure you from that decision you will start to change your life slowly, it will be worth it. I am really happy that you have come a very long way and been able to realize the fact i.e. gambling is causing you more harm than good. In your case, you haven’t taken debt from the bank or a close friend after repeated failures but still, it would take some time to forget the losses and move on in life with some positive vibes about your future. Al I have to say in the end is that one must not be as crazy to take loans and try his luck over and over again when there is no guarantee to win.
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bestluck
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September 27, 2017, 08:52:59 PM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life. I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
To all people who have been experiencing this kind of situation I am sincerely want you to know that you can still get up and go back on track on life. As For me, I didn't get a loan for gambling, everything that I've wasted on gambling is hard earned money that's why the emotional suffering is very long and tiring but it is only a simple decision that changed my life and that is to STOP and from that decision everything changed. For the people who are in debt. Decide to stop playing, find a regular job and slowly pay your debts, yes it is really hard but i assure you from that decision you will start to change your life slowly, it will be worth it. We are always one decision away from change. If a person is living even after devastation, that means he is capable of moving on. To be very honest, I have never ever experienced great or small money loss but I have lost a lot of important people in my life. So, I know what sufferings are in real. We all have money problems but humans have the choice to be what they want to be.
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September 28, 2017, 12:52:53 PM |
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Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life. I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
To all people who have been experiencing this kind of situation I am sincerely want you to know that you can still get up and go back on track on life. As For me, I didn't get a loan for gambling, everything that I've wasted on gambling is hard earned money that's why the emotional suffering is very long and tiring but it is only a simple decision that changed my life and that is to STOP and from that decision everything changed. For the people who are in debt. Decide to stop playing, find a regular job and slowly pay your debts, yes it is really hard but i assure you from that decision you will start to change your life slowly, it will be worth it. We are always one decision away from change. If a person is living even after devastation, that means he is capable of moving on. To be very honest, I have never ever experienced great or small money loss but I have lost a lot of important people in my life. So, I know what sufferings are in real. We all have money problems but humans have the choice to be what they want to be. It's kinda weird to link the lost of money to lost of love ones. I would say they are quite different. No matter what you do, you cannot bring back a dead loved one. But if money is lost, there is always a chance you can get it back and likely a lot more can be had. I dont think it is a good analogy to compare money with love ones. That's just sad.
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