Problem Gamblers here who are in Debt ?

[eternalgloom]

If anybody is in debt because of gambling the it's your fault and no one else, not the community and surely not the site you play but its basically because of lack of self control. When I hear people run into debt because of gambling, I just imagine how that is possible if there is self restraint.

I don't think I can get involved to the point of betting all that I have, and then still go out to borrow from people to still play. When someone do something like that, they should be sentenced to remand homes for the rest of their lives because they have not only fail themselves but also failed humanity and so they lose the morality to live among rational thinking individuals.

I think that's taking it way too far, science hasn't even figured out why some people get addicted while others do not.

You should have some sympathy for people who are suffering to addiction, I know they do a lot of damage to their environment and/or family, but I don't think it's 100% due to 'lack of self control'.

People should who are that addicted to gambling should have the chance to get treatment for their addiction and have a chance to recover and pay everything back or file for bankruptcy.

[zergenyt09]

in my opinion, when gamblers lose in gambling and they still want to keep playing, they will do various ways to keep playing. one of them is by way of debt. they dare to debt, because they believe will win and can return their debt. but in my opinion, if lost at the moment, it is better to just retreat, dont continues the gambling with the way of debt.

Once indulged deeply into something, it becomes hard to shake off old habits. This is the problem with addicts. They can't live without their daily doze. Gambling is very addictive. Moreover, it makes a person greedy also when he wins two or three times.

Due to these two reasons, gamblers do not quit the game and keep on going in loss. They should get control over their greed.

[Pasnik]

in my opinion, when gamblers lose in gambling and they still want to keep playing, they will do various ways to keep playing. one of them is by way of debt. they dare to debt, because they believe will win and can return their debt. but in my opinion, if lost at the moment, it is better to just retreat, dont continues the gambling with the way of debt.

Once indulged deeply into something, it becomes hard to shake off old habits. This is the problem with addicts. They can't live without their daily doze. Gambling is very addictive. Moreover, it makes a person greedy also when he wins two or three times.

Due to these two reasons, gamblers do not quit the game and keep on going in loss. They should get control over their greed.

This is possible gamblers are in debt just to continued to play even suffered of losing. This means a persons wanted to play even with debt are becoming addicted into gambling. In this case, this must be resolve and control the emotions in playing gambling.

[Maddinson100]

Honestly there is no way for help those who have this problem, that's why we always tell to other people better not to loan money for gambling because you will be in problem. maybe the only way for you to keep alive, easy never think if you had lose much money in gambling

It is a sad and harsh reality indeed. They could have been saved if they were at the verge of destruction but they are already destroyed so nothing much can be done for such people. Goodness can only save them. However, it can be a lesson for other gamblers, specially the new ones.

Gambling is very addictive and fatal. It is very funny to see people digging their graves by their own hands by gambling with all the wealth. Above that, they speed up the process by burrowing money from others. It is like adding fuel into fire. I hope people understand that how much harmful gambling can be for them and their close ones.

It is a harsh reality. People make unexpected obvious mistakes. Gamblers know that they can end up losing all their capital or assets but still they don't stop playing this game. It is only because their greed is dominating their senses. After losing all their wealth, desperation is the next emotion that overtakes they and they start borrowing from others.

[michaelch]

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

No doubt that the best thing they can do is to seek professional help, both for mental health and financially.

[eann014]

It's depend on gambler's religion and family support since that the most important in order to recover their mental before getting worse
Of course , it's need some time to pay their debt but with healthy mind, everything will go smooth later

That's true. If we have a healthy mind, we can have a better life. Getting worse is also depend on a person if they are not determine to stop in gambling. They get buried in debt because of their addiction in gambling. If we have a good mind, we will not going to think of having a loan just to play gambling.

[marlboroza]

in my opinion, when gamblers lose in gambling and they still want to keep playing, they will do various ways to keep playing. one of them is by way of debt. they dare to debt, because they believe will win and can return their debt. but in my opinion, if lost at the moment, it is better to just retreat, dont continues the gambling with the way of debt.

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Once indulged deeply into something, it becomes hard to shake off old habits. This is the problem with addicts. They can't live without their daily doze. Gambling is very addictive. Moreover, it makes a person greedy also when he wins two or three times.

Due to these two reasons, gamblers do not quit the game and keep on going in loss. They should get control over their greed.

I don't think it is possible to control greed, either you are greedy and always wants more or you are not greedy and you are happy with just little you get. Gambling addiction is not caused by greed, it is caused buy chemicals in brain. Do research.

[coinplus]

Gaining happiness from big loss isn't an instant thing, it's a process that someone needs to go through. The feeling of being a depressed gambler is hard to deal with.

If you are aware on this feeling or you are experiencing this right now, you must go seek your parents as they are the one that will understand you and will never blame you with your wrong doings.

They are the best people that can give you happiness, trust me.

It is true that most of us go through such phases in our life when we have been into something really awful turning into a huge loss at the end. This is something quite common nowadays.
The only thing that could change the worst scenario of feeling regretful into something bearable is that your parents provide you emotional support to go through it in quite a better way than facing the hardship alone.

[Ziskinberg]

Gaining happiness from big loss isn't an instant thing, it's a process that someone needs to go through. The feeling of being a depressed gambler is hard to deal with.

If you are aware on this feeling or you are experiencing this right now, you must go seek your parents as they are the one that will understand you and will never blame you with your wrong doings.

They are the best people that can give you happiness, trust me.

It is true that most of us go through such phases in our life when we have been into something really awful turning into a huge loss at the end. This is something quite common nowadays.
The only thing that could change the worst scenario of feeling regretful into something bearable is that your parents provide you emotional support to go through it in quite a better way than facing the hardship alone.

I hope every problematic gambler are willing to accept their situation and understand that they are not doing well in gambling. Sometimes we have this pride that we do not admit to ourselves that we are not losing and we always thinking that we are still under control of everything despite the result does not show what we believe. We need help if we have a problem and the longer we keep that ourselves the more it becomes a bigger problem.

[RealPhotoshoper]

It's depend on gambler's religion and family support since that the most important in order to recover their mental before getting worse
Of course , it's need some time to pay their debt but with healthy mind, everything will go smooth later

That's true. If we have a healthy mind, we can have a better life. Getting worse is also depend on a person if they are not determine to stop in gambling. They get buried in debt because of their addiction in gambling. If we have a good mind, we will not going to think of having a loan just to play gambling.

A lot of people around here who actively gamble have experienced get so much debt caused gambling.
They did not give up by the way , just keep tryimg to recover it.
That was a bad decision indeed , they are getting addicted , lost so much but cannot stop to play.

[olubams]

I doubt if there is anybody who will admit that he is a problematic gambler who is in debt as a result of that. If we have such individual then the is need for therapy because its obvious he has not stopped to be here. I gamble as well but not to the point of using someone else's resources for that purpose and even my own money, there is a limit that I can go to gamble with it. When that is known before hand, problem and troubles will be avoided.

[BlueStackz]

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

To all people who have been experiencing this kind of situation I am sincerely want you to know that you can still get up and go back on track on life. As For me, I didn't get a loan for gambling, everything that I've wasted on gambling is hard earned money that's why the emotional suffering is very long and tiring but it is only a simple decision that changed my life and that is to STOP and from that decision everything changed.

For the people who are in debt. Decide to stop playing, find a regular job and slowly pay your debts, yes it is really hard but i assure you from that decision you will start to change your life slowly, it will be worth it.

We are always one decision away from change. If a person is living even after devastation, that means he is capable of moving on. To be very honest, I have never ever experienced great or small money loss but I have lost a lot of important people in my life. So, I know what sufferings are in real. We all have money problems but humans have the choice to be what they want to be.

It's kinda weird to link the lost of money to lost of love ones. I would say they are quite different. No matter what you do, you cannot bring back a dead loved one. But if money is lost, there is always a chance you can get it back and likely a lot more can be had. I dont think it is a good analogy to compare money with love ones. That's just sad.

Indeed both are different but pain has no type. No matter whatever the reason is, at the end of the day anything that we lose ache our hearts. You lose money, you will suffer.

You lose close ones, you will suffer and suffering is same, just painful and also losing someone does not mean to lose his body or physical appearance. Moreover, there are gamblers who have committed suicide that means recovering from it is not very simple.

[BlockEye]

I doubt if there is anybody who will admit that he is a problematic gambler who is in debt as a result of that. If we have such individual then the is need for therapy because its obvious he has not stopped to be here. I gamble as well but not to the point of using someone else's resources for that purpose and even my own money, there is a limit that I can go to gamble with it. When that is known before hand, problem and troubles will be avoided.

It's normal that gamblers deny that they're addicted on gambling,  as much as they can they will keep it secret or pretend that they can still manage it, even they are in debts they will keep on playing it.As I've said gamblers with Debt is not new. Many of Gamblers (Addict Gamblers) had debts and they need to realize that it will not cause good on them.

[Oilacris]

I doubt if there is anybody who will admit that he is a problematic gambler who is in debt as a result of that. If we have such individual then the is need for therapy because its obvious he has not stopped to be here. I gamble as well but not to the point of using someone else's resources for that purpose and even my own money, there is a limit that I can go to gamble with it. When that is known before hand, problem and troubles will be avoided.

It's normal that gamblers deny that they're addicted on gambling,  as much as they can they will keep it secret or pretend that they can still manage it, even they are in debts they will keep on playing it.As I've said gamblers with Debt is not new. Many of Gamblers (Addict Gamblers) had debts and they need to realize that it will not cause good on them.

They wont realize such thing because they are already addicted to gambling which they would normally think up that they are not doing something wrong in them.Without having wary about on their current situation.Debts would really be normal specially to those gamblers who do have only an average earning compared into those rich gamblers they do really have the edge always since they do have the capability on wasting up their money.

[redsun114]

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

To all people who have been experiencing this kind of situation I am sincerely want you to know that you can still get up and go back on track on life. As For me, I didn't get a loan for gambling, everything that I've wasted on gambling is hard earned money that's why the emotional suffering is very long and tiring but it is only a simple decision that changed my life and that is to STOP and from that decision everything changed.

For the people who are in debt. Decide to stop playing, find a regular job and slowly pay your debts, yes it is really hard but i assure you from that decision you will start to change your life slowly, it will be worth it.

We are always one decision away from change. If a person is living even after devastation, that means he is capable of moving on. To be very honest, I have never ever experienced great or small money loss but I have lost a lot of important people in my life. So, I know what sufferings are in real. We all have money problems but humans have the choice to be what they want to be.

Yeah you are right if a person is able to survive such a lot of mishaps in his life then he is probably the real hero of his own story. Same is the thing in gambling. After a huge many losses, the only thing that could help you to recover from it is that you quit gambling   for good and start to earn via doing some other job.

This type of consultancy relating your future would help you recover the losses and change the darker side of life into something beautiful and colored.

[rickadone]

I doubt if there is anybody who will admit that he is a problematic gambler who is in debt as a result of that. If we have such individual then the is need for therapy because its obvious he has not stopped to be here. I gamble as well but not to the point of using someone else's resources for that purpose and even my own money, there is a limit that I can go to gamble with it. When that is known before hand, problem and troubles will be avoided.

I have seen people confessing their difficulties on this forum. If you will open some previous pages, you will definitely found some stories.

There are people who have come to the verge of committing suicide because they have no money and above that they have to pay debts. Without any income source, the only way they see out of all problems is to kill the relation between their bodies and souls

[naidray]

If anybody is in debt because of gambling the it's your fault and no one else, not the community and surely not the site you play but its basically because of lack of self control. When I hear people run into debt because of gambling, I just imagine how that is possible if there is self restraint.

I don't think I can get involved to the point of betting all that I have, and then still go out to borrow from people to still play. When someone do something like that, they should be sentenced to remand homes for the rest of their lives because they have not only fail themselves but also failed humanity and so they lose the morality to live among rational thinking individuals.

I think that's taking it way too far, science hasn't even figured out why some people get addicted while others do not.

You should have some sympathy for people who are suffering to addiction, I know they do a lot of damage to their environment and/or family, but I don't think it's 100% due to 'lack of self control'.

People should who are that addicted to gambling should have the chance to get treatment for their addiction and have a chance to recover and pay everything back or file for bankruptcy.

I feel you mate. However, truth be told, people who are addicted to gambling today apparently brought it upon themselves and like he said, it is just lack of self control and no need trying to make them feel good about it cause it won't help.

I once told my cousin to get help recently cause he kept thinking he would win all he has lost from gambling back and he kept losing them all still. Most people who are gambling and addicted to it today did not start gambling for fun but they thought it will make them rich over night and that is just being lazy.

Make money outside gambling as there are so many ways and get out there to have fun if you wish. It is just like habit and it totally depends on the person to realize that they need help.

[buyinbtc]

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

It is really important to stop gambling. It will be impossible to change  or "fix" your(his) life if that person will keep gambling. It's possible to pay every debt though, it just takes time. He should find a job so that he would have monthly income first.

[crazycatwoman03]

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

It is really important to stop gambling. It will be impossible to change  or "fix" your(his) life if that person will keep gambling. It's possible to pay every debt though, it just takes time. He should find a job so that he would have monthly income first.

Sadly, there are problem gamblers who haven't realized that and they keep on playing gambling hoping that winning in it will solve all of their financial problems. But of course, it is not like dreams because in reality, the possibility of losing many times is greater causing that problem gambler to lose more money and worsts, to have more debts.

Stopping on playing gambling is not as easy as we say it especially if it became a habit already.

[LuanX3]

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

It is really important to stop gambling. It will be impossible to change  or "fix" your(his) life if that person will keep gambling. It's possible to pay every debt though, it just takes time. He should find a job so that he would have monthly income first.

Sadly, there are problem gamblers who haven't realized that and they keep on playing gambling hoping that winning in it will solve all of their financial problems. But of course, it is not like dreams because in reality, the possibility of losing many times is greater causing that problem gambler to lose more money and worsts, to have more debts.

Stopping on playing gambling is not as easy as we say it especially if it became a habit already.

That is indeed a sad truth, but it is not anyone's fault but the gambler himself. Sometimes our judgement is clouded by our problems and that further causes a lot more problems for us. When we are in debt especially, we become really desperate and we try all crazy things like gambling to try our luck and see if we would be able to get out of our financial problems only to realize that it will just further bury us in debt.