Problem Gamblers here who are in Debt ?

[bering]

i knew someone who is addicted to gambling before. actually, she was my close friend and she's still young. a promising nurse by one of the wealthiest personality here in my country. and because of gambling addiction she lost everything and had a big debt in casino. what she did is she sold her new built house and pay her debt. after that, they migrated to other countries with her family.

this is indeed the long term for addicted effect from gambling because their debt each days will high and higher again then eventually they cannot again paying their debt even already sold their wealth such as their houses but usually after they're losing their wealth but the problem cannot be solved automatically because they will find another way to back in gamble although already poor

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[Lionidas]

I am used to be a problem gambler with the huge debt but i did it, i'm been through everything and i'm back to myself for now.

Good to know this.
But it must of been a rough road to get thru to be able to quit it out of your life so to get back to normal again.
Your one of the lucky ones I guess. Because most the stories I have heard is that most do not and they are forced out of their homes and sometimes out of their own families disown them because of it.
They become to much of a burden and even end up robbing people for money to feed their addiction.
It is much like a drug in some sense.
Sad really.

[markdario112616]

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.

Addiction is a silent killer. It's really hard to regain whatever you or other losses in this type of addiction. Though whatever it may take a person still need to reconstruct his/her foundation to continue on with his/her life. I pity those people who lost their battle with this addiction. I myself used to be an addict in gambling but I did everything I could to step out in this line of industry, I've been in debt because of gambling and I even lost my family and my house because of it. So I started to think more of my family than myself. I begin to lay low in gambling and spend more time with my family and defeat my addiction.

For those people who lose everything, they must look at it as a wake-up call for them to change and to totally fight his/her addiction. It would take time but just believe in the process.

so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

We all have this what we called fruits of happiness in which each person has different reasons to be happy. Generally speaking, for this type of cases. A person who is the middle of a crisis in his life must forgive himself and free himself from the chains that preventing him to be happy. Leave gambling as early as they can to avoid further damage. Yes, It's easy to say than done but it's the only way to regain one's composure against all odds.

[bosimpson54]

I know many people , who are really good people, they turn into the bad guy and scam everyone he met cause he's in the big debt. It's a sad story.

[futile-resistance]

I am used to be a problem gambler with the huge debt but i did it, i'm been through everything and i'm back to myself for now.

Good to know this.
But it must of been a rough road to get thru to be able to quit it out of your life so to get back to normal again.
Your one of the lucky ones I guess. Because most the stories I have heard is that most do not and they are forced out of their homes and sometimes out of their own families disown them because of it.
They become to much of a burden and even end up robbing people for money to feed their addiction.
It is much like a drug in some sense.
Sad really.

I am really surprised that how one had made a comeback from such a thing, however I have also seen people who reach to their death bed but still they try to gamble just to give peace to their soul.

Also I have heard many cases in which the people get through this rough and dry journey of their life only by the help of psychiatrists and for that they have to pay a lot of heavy dues but his loving ones pay just not to lose him.

[DesmondHayes]

Money is everything to us and debt that is unpayable can really destroy your life. A lot of people are getting addicted to the gambling and with the bad moves in their life, they are making way to their doom. Their demise is getting even bigger when they come to the endpoint. Every gambler that has problems with the money and that has suffered the big losses must find "that something" to put him on the right way again. The instant money present would be the best solution for every gambler problems but the life is a little more complicated than that. People with the strong will can prevail all the debts they have made but to be completely relieved and put back to the trail of happiness gamblers with the debts must decide if the gamble itself is more precious then their life.

[siti25]

Money is everything to us and debt that is unpayable can really destroy your life. A lot of people are getting addicted to the gambling and with the bad moves in their life, they are making way to their doom. Their demise is getting even bigger when they come to the endpoint. Every gambler that has problems with the money and that has suffered the big losses must find "that something" to put him on the right way again. The instant money present would be the best solution for every gambler problems but the life is a little more complicated than that. People with the strong will can prevail all the debts they have made but to be completely relieved and put back to the trail of happiness gamblers with the debts must decide if the gamble itself is more precious then their life.

Debt is something we do not want to do. But we also have to know the situation, if there is an urgent need and we really need quick money then we can owe, but only for the purposes that must be met. If debt is just for gambling then it is an essential folly. It would be foolish to force a debt to gamble or to have a lot of debt because the possessions are always spent on gambling.

[pokeronlinestatus]

I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

If your life is already a mess don't ever try to do gambling because it can really ruin your life. Most of the gamblers are really in debt simply because of greed, people are showing too much greed just to get money or to get back their losses. Better not to do it when you are incapable to do so.

I hope that he doesn't use his money from debts to playing gambling because he will be difficult to pay his debts. without having a job, he cannot earn money and without money, he cannot pay back his debts. this is why that he must not gambling with that money and only use that money for another purpose.

Not many people do that anyways i think. People who are desperate and can think of no other ways to make money are probably those that do this. You're just making things a whole lot worse. There may be those that are saved by gambling but that mostly happen in movies

and we can hope that if someday we are in debts, we don't use that money to play gambling to make money. I think there are many people that realize about this and somehow they can use that money to open their business and after running for some period they can pay the money.

This totally depends upon how intelligent a gambler is. If he’s smart enough, he will definitely not gamble from debts because it will put him in financial crisis which would be situation difficult to handle for his family and himself also.

But if the gambler is so addicted and is absent minded and also relies on a single statement “I will see” then surely he would play with his debts when empty handed and the results will be not in his favor.

[Smarty14392]

It's kind of useless to ask an addicted gambler who is in debt to stop gambling, and thats because the only way for him to pay back people or cut his losses is to gamble even more. I learned that after recovering from similar situations so i would suggest that he play smart and remain focused and maybe luck will be on his side.

Addicted people always try to arrange money from different sources either they are in debt or credit, As gambling is a game of luck and no one can become lucky for every time. Therefore most of the gambler remain as in debt. But I think it is not right to say that they will stop playing gambling. They will even manage to get money and will continue playing gambling

I hope that he doesn't use his money from debts to playing gambling because he will be difficult to pay his debts. without having a job, he cannot earn money and without money, he cannot pay back his debts. this is why that he must not gambling with that money and only use that money for another purpose.

Yes that is right but I think still most of the people even having limit for their gambling but still they cannot control themselves from playing gambling. In fact gambling is such kind of games which compel people to continue playing gambling even after reaching to their limits even they take loan for continue playing gambling and that is the reason that most of the gamblers remain in debt.

[Pixyoxx]

Being in debt is the worst thing one can get into. Having debt is quite stressing and quite demotivating.
Gambling can offcourse cause debt. But being in debt and still being involved in gambling is the most threatfull thing.

When one is already in debt, doing something that may possibly and cause and potentially bring more debt is not suggestive. One should try and come out of debt and then only think of gambling or any sort of such game or investment.

One will end up getting more deep into the pit of debt if they continue gambling.

[futile-resistance]

I am used to be a problem gambler with the huge debt but i did it, i'm been through everything and i'm back to myself for now.

Good to know this.
But it must of been a rough road to get thru to be able to quit it out of your life so to get back to normal again.
Your one of the lucky ones I guess. Because most the stories I have heard is that most do not and they are forced out of their homes and sometimes out of their own families disown them because of it.
They become to much of a burden and even end up robbing people for money to feed their addiction.
It is much like a drug in some sense.
Sad really.

I am really surprised that how one had made a comeback from such a thing, however I have also seen people who reach to their death bed but still they try to gamble just to give peace to their soul.

Also I have heard many cases in which the people get through this rough and dry journey of their life only by the help of psychiatrists and for that they have to pay a lot of heavy dues but his loving ones pay just not to lose him.

It means that you passed some hard time in the past and it is all because of gambling. Better not to gamble again. I have seen a lot of gamblers who have lost even their homes, cars, businesses and everything and they never make anything form gambling.

Gambling is not good and also illegal in many countries, the reason for banning is that it is a bad thing and you can come to roads from a palace.

[dharnamonitor]

I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

Agree mostly those gambler that has a debt the family mostly paying the debts because he cant repay it . Mostly of the gamblers will loan a money because thinking that they could get back their losses but end up lossing more. Mostly those addicted one is really a lot of debts because they cant mostly control their feelings on spending it , they only just bet and bet and hoping they could win big and not thinking their debts

I hate those kinds of people, those who will beg that I should let him borrow my money and he will return it immediately but after a month I learned  that he just used his borrowed  money to gamble and he got lose. Now,  he still got some guts to borrow again,  I'll definitely give him a hard punch in his face

[milewilda]

I am used to be a problem gambler with the huge debt but i did it, i'm been through everything and i'm back to myself for now.

Good to know this.
But it must of been a rough road to get thru to be able to quit it out of your life so to get back to normal again.
Your one of the lucky ones I guess. Because most the stories I have heard is that most do not and they are forced out of their homes and sometimes out of their own families disown them because of it.
They become to much of a burden and even end up robbing people for money to feed their addiction.
It is much like a drug in some sense.
Sad really.

I am really surprised that how one had made a comeback from such a thing, however I have also seen people who reach to their death bed but still they try to gamble just to give peace to their soul.

Also I have heard many cases in which the people get through this rough and dry journey of their life only by the help of psychiatrists and for that they have to pay a lot of heavy dues but his loving ones pay just not to lose him.

It means that you passed some hard time in the past and it is all because of gambling. Better not to gamble again. I have seen a lot of gamblers who have lost even their homes, cars, businesses and everything and they never make anything form gambling.

Gambling is not good and also illegal in many countries, the reason for banning is that it is a bad thing and you can come to roads from a palace.

Gambling can really make your life miserable and experience things that you didnt even imagine that would happen into your entire life.It can really wreck out someones life if you let your addiction control you specially on gambling we do know it involved money and money is the main thing we do need to live on this world. Sustaining our needs, food,shelter and other priorities and if you did compromise it because of gambling you would really suffer the consequences.

[RealPhotoshoper]

I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.

[megynacuna]

I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.

I beg to differ because a lot of gamblers have been successful too and can't say that gambling is  a bad thing because it even gives employment to some people and they pay taxes to the government. Those that play it can be bad people and not gambling itself because irresponsible people also play and they loose their monies most of the time and earn that bad name  for gambling which shouldn't be so,.

[yoseph]

I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.

People always tend to lose control whenever they are gambling, they put limits on how much they are going to gamble but they end up going way overboard in the process.  They can't seem to help it at all. But since they have hope of winning money they keep on coming for more.

[Jedie22]

Money is everything to us and debt that is unpayable can really destroy your life. A lot of people are getting addicted to the gambling and with the bad moves in their life, they are making way to their doom. Their demise is getting even bigger when they come to the endpoint. Every gambler that has problems with the money and that has suffered the big losses must find "that something" to put him on the right way again. The instant money present would be the best solution for every gambler problems but the life is a little more complicated than that. People with the strong will can prevail all the debts they have made but to be completely relieved and put back to the trail of happiness gamblers with the debts must decide if the gamble itself is more precious then their life.

You're absolutely right mate, most gamblers were addicted that they will bet as much as they can aiming to win but in the end they will go home nothing left in their wallet. In the worst case they will do bad things like robbery and commit a crime. This all thing was happened due to greediness of a gambler person and having too many debt. Also, a gambler person can't control easily because of being addicted and they must be discipline and if possible to go in a rehabilitation.

[kodes88]

I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.

People always tend to lose control whenever they are gambling, they put limits on how much they are going to gamble but they end up going way overboard in the process.  They can't seem to help it at all. But since they have hope of winning money they keep on coming for more.

Self-control is paramount. If you do not know how to control yourself then you do not fit in the gambling world. Gambling without self-control will only make you a loser. For example, owe only to gamble, it is a real loser.
 The real loser in the gambling world is like that.
 

[crwth]

I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.

People always tend to lose control whenever they are gambling, they put limits on how much they are going to gamble but they end up going way overboard in the process.  They can't seem to help it at all. But since they have hope of winning money they keep on coming for more.

Self-control is paramount. If you do not know how to control yourself then you do not fit in the gambling world. Gambling without self-control will only make you a loser. For example, owe only to gamble, it is a real loser.
 The real loser in the gambling world is like that.
 

I don't think that they won't fit in, but they would fit in in the addicted gamblers label because they can't control themselves anymore. If you have no way of controlling what you do then that's definitely how the things are going to get going. You need to really come up with a way to control yourself.

[Caladonian]

I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.

People always tend to lose control whenever they are gambling, they put limits on how much they are going to gamble but they end up going way overboard in the process.  They can't seem to help it at all. But since they have hope of winning money they keep on coming for more.

Self-control is paramount. If you do not know how to control yourself then you do not fit in the gambling world. Gambling without self-control will only make you a loser. For example, owe only to gamble, it is a real loser.
 The real loser in the gambling world is like that.
 

I don't think that they won't fit in, but they would fit in in the addicted gamblers label because they can't control themselves anymore. If you have no way of controlling what you do then that's definitely how the things are going to get going. You need to really come up with a way to control yourself.

It seems that this problem was always been there as problem gamblers suffer with emotions, thinking that they can win back those loses that they already got and keep trying to find some luck, and instead of quitting after winning some they usually continue and suffer again big loses, it will just keep repeating so better to find solution or start quitting this activity.