Man, this segwit 2x is so complicated. So many articles pro, so many against, people in Twitter pro and not, etc, etc.
This does very bad to the community and to beginners. Especially when there was a consensus (or so I understand from NYC). So it was OK some months ago and not ok now.
I hope this shit won't happen in the future
No it was never ok, the miners and several business related to bitcoin made a pact the famous New York Agreement, but two of the most important actors of bitcoin were never consulted, first the devs, they are the ones that maintain bitcoin and create new features and every single one of them is against this, and second the users of bitcoin, most informed bitcoin users are against this fork because it is not necessary.