Lets say I set a very low transaction fee for a bitcoin transaction(from one of my own wallets to another). I also have mining equipment which is mining for bitcoins. Is there anyway to get that transaction request directed towards me ? In other words can I process my own transactions by giving it priority?
If so how do I do this?
There is no reason to direct a transaction to a miner, because every miner sees every transaction.
The miner picks which transactions to include in their next block and can use any criteria that they want. Most miners pick the most profitable transactions, but a miner that is associated with an exchange or perhaps is paid by an exchange might pick transactions going in and out of the exchange first, regardless of the fee.
However, the miner that gets to add the next block is random so there are no guarantees. In general, if you have 1% of the total hash power, then you get to decide the priority of transactions 1% of the time.