Gambling and Relationships!

[Kevin77]

The amount of money in your bank account is irrelevant if you get addicted to gambling you are going to have trouble it does not matter if you are rich or if you are poor since those that are rich are going to bet huge quantities of money and eventually their money is going to run out.

Totally irrelevant for an addict. Even the rich people that gamble know their limit and most of them just try to go to casinos just to have some fun and probably maybe some bit of luck may shine on them.

However, there is one thing with gambling that if it cannot be controlled, it can be extremely easy for one to lose all they have. Like you said, it does not mean if you are rich, poor, in a relationship or not, as long as you let your guard loses, then you are in for it forever if care is not taken.

[South Park]

I gamble only un online but i never want that any of my family members know about it that i gamble even my friends.i meet online friends in gambling site and we share stratigies.but i dont have real friends that gamble also

It's different to be like that, you are keeping your gambling habit to your family and friends, I think you are full of secret in real life. That attitude I think would make you grow like a loner. You tend to secret everything.

Anyway, I don't want to gamble along with my girlfriend. It is either I can't concentrate on the game or I don't listen carefully to my girlfriend. As much as possible I don't want to do it both at the same time. I will always choose my girlfriend over gambling if I came to the situation where I have to do both at the same time.

yes in most of the societies and religions gambling is consider as ill activity, therefore people try to hide their gambling activities, in fact online gambling make it possible to play gambling anonymously, even your family and close friends cannot know about your gambling activities. you can now play gambling from your bedroom.

Technology can have a great effect in our lives and the effect can be for the better or for the worst, just look at bitcoin, bitcoin can be used for all kind of great things but it became famous because a bunch of people began using bitcoin to buy and sell drugs in the silk road.

[Loveydovey04]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

I think if both couple are gamblers, that will be a horrible situation. No one of them will neutralize the situation but both will be into it. And if one loses another will try oll the more untill their last penny will be finished. I will not take a gambler partner if i will be asked and be given a choice to choose.

[Loveydovey04]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Play gambling in one place with family member will be very rare to see here in my place. We prefer to hide this habit from our relatives. But with best friends, we will do it if there are not enough people to play. We will share the money we won.

Exactly. In my place gambling is not accepted as something desirable in my place. Anyone involved in gambling is being talked about and is not always respected and if one of family members are found out to be gambling, that would be a big issue. Sometimes the person is being excommunicated in the family.

[Oilacris]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Play gambling in one place with family member will be very rare to see here in my place. We prefer to hide this habit from our relatives. But with best friends, we will do it if there are not enough people to play. We will share the money we won.

Exactly. In my place gambling is not accepted as something desirable in my place. Anyone involved in gambling is being talked about and is not always respected and if one of family members are found out to be gambling, that would be a big issue. Sometimes the person is being excommunicated in the family.

This would really be on case to case basis only since there are communities or countries which do see gambling as an illegal or immoral thing which if someone is already engage on it then treatment would really  be different compared it was before.Factors that do affect is on the law of a certain country and in religious matter which gambling can be seen as an unacceptable thing.If you do have that type of family then better to avoid gambling if you dont like to be treated differently.

[Semaj123]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Play gambling in one place with family member will be very rare to see here in my place. We prefer to hide this habit from our relatives. But with best friends, we will do it if there are not enough people to play. We will share the money we won.

Exactly. In my place gambling is not accepted as something desirable in my place. Anyone involved in gambling is being talked about and is not always respected and if one of family members are found out to be gambling, that would be a big issue. Sometimes the person is being excommunicated in the family.

Gambling together with the family for the reason is to have fun is good. But gambling with the purpose of making more money is not good because winning percentage is too small and  a high risk of losing all money. Playing cards inside the house with your friends and relatives is much more fun and can make your relationship grow stronger.

[Jedzkie050617]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Play gambling in one place with family member will be very rare to see here in my place. We prefer to hide this habit from our relatives. But with best friends, we will do it if there are not enough people to play. We will share the money we won.

Exactly. In my place gambling is not accepted as something desirable in my place. Anyone involved in gambling is being talked about and is not always respected and if one of family members are found out to be gambling, that would be a big issue. Sometimes the person is being excommunicated in the family.

Gambling together with the family for the reason is to have fun is good. But gambling with the purpose of making more money is not good because winning percentage is too small and  a high risk of losing all money. Playing cards inside the house with your friends and relatives is much more fun and can make your relationship grow stronger.

Gambling between family members is one way to have stronger ties in the family and i think there is really nothing wrong with that, sometimes people bet their chores when they gamble and in my opinion, its a very fun thing to do. Nothing wrong with gambling as long as you have it under control. Its always the greedy ones who have issues with .

There are several factors in gambling which will depends the way we're use , it may be in positive or negative way. Our own prerogative experienced will differ like our friends and family members. Some how most of the time we play gambling on our friends like on the trending event in the society which involving sports or any activities. The relationship of our friends and family will be fun having bonding and developed relationship,knowing each other, though there might some conflict but afterwards it will be settle in the right time.

[Dreamchaser21]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

I think if both couple are gamblers, that will be a horrible situation. No one of them will neutralize the situation but both will be into it. And if one loses another will try oll the more untill their last penny will be finished. I will not take a gambler partner if i will be asked and be given a choice to choose.

This is not a healthy relationship for me, because money is just a money, I will not let my family to get involved in this kind of addiction. I cannot say gambling is really bad at all but for me If you are addicted in gambling don't let your love ones to get involve because you know what is the effect of that, don't loose your family because of this.

[diegz]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

I think if both couple are gamblers, that will be a horrible situation. No one of them will neutralize the situation but both will be into it. And if one loses another will try oll the more untill their last penny will be finished. I will not take a gambler partner if i will be asked and be given a choice to choose.

This is not a healthy relationship for me, because money is just a money, I will not let my family to get involved in this kind of addiction. I cannot say gambling is really bad at all but for me If you are addicted in gambling don't let your love ones to get involve because you know what is the effect of that, don't loose your family because of this.

It's a weird feeling for sure, I've tried gambling with my brother in an online game, but I can't seem to concentrate on my bets and of course, that weird feeling that you will feel I'm sure that every gambler know that.

Aside from that, it would be a failure if you both fail and a waste of time if  one win and the other one did not. Another thing, you could have been resting or talking sensible conversation when you are not gambling and just listening to each other.

[Rinsend]

Why is it strange for you? Friends, couples and even friends like to play together at casinos. I have seen on the movies people going together to Las Vegas casinos to play. It seems very normal for me, it's like people who go to amusement parks, clubs together to have fun.

he considers this strange because in his country gambling is strictly prohibited.
that's why he never had experience about this,
the questions asked for us sound natural.
but will be very different from those whose country strictly prohibits gambling.
therefore they will feel strange

That's true in my country also gambling is not allowed in all places so if anyone knows that someone is gambling then they will have a different thinking about those people. Gambling means always it gives a bad opinion.

It is not compulsory that people need to accept whatever shown in movies but it all depends on individual thinking.

Even if you gamble with your friends? The government are not allowing you? because in our country it is not allowed until you get a persimission on the city government but if you just play with friends or family and inside youre house they dont mind it as long as it didn't look like casino that too many gamblers at your house.

I think however people's opinion about gambling,
we do not need to listen as long as gambling benefits and does not harm anyone.
it never hurts to keep us gambling.
unless we start gambling with loan funds.
because it will definitely harm others

[zmkriel]

actually me and husband are both into gambling. but we don't a lot. we do if we got bored and we both played the same game. usually, we went together in casinos but usually only a couple of hours.

[mirakal]

actually me and husband are both into gambling. but we don't a lot. we do if we got bored and we both played the same game. usually, we went together in casinos but usually only a couple of hours.

I hope you stay that sweet, lol. Knowing each other as a gambler is good because you understand each other and you can get advise from each other. Gambling irresponsibly will destroy a good relationship but if you are gambling for the sake of entertainment, I think that would help to develop your good relationship.

[youdacapt]

actually me and husband are both into gambling. but we don't a lot. we do if we got bored and we both played the same game. usually, we went together in casinos but usually only a couple of hours.

I hope you stay that sweet, lol. Knowing each other as a gambler is good because you understand each other and you can get advise from each other. Gambling irresponsibly will destroy a good relationship but if you are gambling for the sake of entertainment, I think that would help to develop your good relationship.

If they already have one vision then it is not a significant obstacle, all losses and profits are based on responsibility so that they remain in harmony, I also teach a few times gambling to my beloved, even though she did not like it at all, at least he knows what I do seriously and believe that I can do well.

[Lecam]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

I really think that having a relationship with a gambler is not easy because gambling addiction is really difficult to deal with. I had met some friends through gambling because gambling is a good way to socialize and to get to know some people. If ever both of you and your partner are gambling addict and both of you end up losing all of your money, it would create a big mess and might end up your relationship because money is sometimes the main reason why marriage doesn't work.

[Cacingkemi]

actually me and husband are both into gambling. but we don't a lot. we do if we got bored and we both played the same game. usually, we went together in casinos but usually only a couple of hours.

it's nice to know you and your husbands are playing gambling together,it's an incredible pair of mutual understanding in gambling hopefully you are lucky until your old age in playing gambling.

[LuanX3]

actually me and husband are both into gambling. but we don't a lot. we do if we got bored and we both played the same game. usually, we went together in casinos but usually only a couple of hours.

it's nice to know you and your husbands are playing gambling together,it's an incredible pair of mutual understanding in gambling hopefully you are lucky until your old age in playing gambling.

Yeah, problem is that if both of them get addicted then the family suffers. I guess it should be something just for fun and to pass the time. It should not be something very serious where they lose a lot of money. Probably if they are playing poker together and joining tournaments, that would be great too. I would say that it is hard to find couples that gamble together, so probably this is something special.

[South Park]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Play gambling in one place with family member will be very rare to see here in my place. We prefer to hide this habit from our relatives. But with best friends, we will do it if there are not enough people to play. We will share the money we won.

Exactly. In my place gambling is not accepted as something desirable in my place. Anyone involved in gambling is being talked about and is not always respected and if one of family members are found out to be gambling, that would be a big issue. Sometimes the person is being excommunicated in the family.

Gambling together with the family for the reason is to have fun is good. But gambling with the purpose of making more money is not good because winning percentage is too small and  a high risk of losing all money. Playing cards inside the house with your friends and relatives is much more fun and can make your relationship grow stronger.

Gambling in a casino is a completely different thing than gambling with your family, most of the time when you gamble with your family it is not about winning money but about having a good time and enjoy each other company while  most of the time when you gamble in a casino the only goal in your mind is to make money.

[J Gambler]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Relationships are a two way street and the best case scenario is you find a person that can understand and even you think can be a big help to you. HOWever some relationships are fickle and there might be a time she asks you to stop and that might be a root for a misunderstanding

[BlockEye]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Relationships are a two way street and the best case scenario is you find a person that can understand and even you think can be a big help to you. HOWever some relationships are fickle and there might be a time she asks you to stop and that might be a root for a misunderstanding

Entering on any activities that can affect the relationship, like losing time and having an addiction on gambling will really have a bad impact on the relationship. Have a proper time management and seek advises,don't come to the point you'll already lose them or youll lose both.

[JL421]

I think it's hassle if you are going to play gambling with someone. Sometimes it is uncomfortable especially when you are playing and thinking of him that was unfocused for me. And this seems destroyed my game and leading into losses. Sometimes it's better to be alone.

focus is required if one doesnt focus while gambling he wouldnt find out weather hes in profit or loss
he wouldnt be able to stop at the right time and might even miss your profits so always concentrate while
gambling