Gambling and Relationships!

[streetlight]

Here in my county gambling offices are all in a hiding places where no body will get to see the participants let alone making it known  to the families and friends that you are in into gambling.

But why is it happening? Gambling is not a bad deal. I like gambling with friends, and you can meet a lot of people if you are a gambler.

But i do not like those addicts who are always risking all their money.

And their families shouldn't look at them like if they are bad people, for me, it is fine.

Anyway, i am always trying to be far away from those addicts.

Because people get addicted to it. That's why it's a big deal for governments to ban it. And also if people deposit their money into online gambling then the money goes into other countries and out of their country which is bad for them, because they want to keep money inside their borders not give it away.

[wuvdoll]

Here in my county gambling offices are all in a hiding places where no body will get to see the participants let alone making it known  to the families and friends that you are in into gambling.

But why is it happening? Gambling is not a bad deal. I like gambling with friends, and you can meet a lot of people if you are a gambler.

But i do not like those addicts who are always risking all their money.

And their families shouldn't look at them like if they are bad people, for me, it is fine.

Anyway, i am always trying to be far away from those addicts.

Every gambler starts gambling as a non-addict but over the time due to frequent gambling they are becoming addicted to gambling and it is highly affecting their most of the relationships.

Gambling with your friends is a good idea but at the same time your friends may enforce you to keep gambling in some situations. If you are strict enough about that then you can continue your safe gambling. Gambling is by nature addictive, some times an addicted friend also will lead to disasters unexpectedly.

[BlockEye]

Here in my county gambling offices are all in a hiding places where no body will get to see the participants let alone making it known  to the families and friends that you are in into gambling.

But why is it happening? Gambling is not a bad deal. I like gambling with friends, and you can meet a lot of people if you are a gambler.

But i do not like those addicts who are always risking all their money.

And their families shouldn't look at them like if they are bad people, for me, it is fine.

Anyway, i am always trying to be far away from those addicts.

Because people get addicted to it. That's why it's a big deal for governments to ban it. And also if people deposit their money into online gambling then the money goes into other countries and out of their country which is bad for them, because they want to keep money inside their borders not give it away.

That's the reason also why China and South Korea bans crypto, though in terms of gambling its more of the countries beliefs or religion, it's due to greediness one can experience when they keep on doing gambling too much that can lead to addiction and self destruction, that can also affect their community.

[gabmen]

Here in my county gambling offices are all in a hiding places where no body will get to see the participants let alone making it known  to the families and friends that you are in into gambling.

But why is it happening? Gambling is not a bad deal. I like gambling with friends, and you can meet a lot of people if you are a gambler.

But i do not like those addicts who are always risking all their money.

And their families shouldn't look at them like if they are bad people, for me, it is fine.

Anyway, i am always trying to be far away from those addicts.

Because people get addicted to it. That's why it's a big deal for governments to ban it. And also if people deposit their money into online gambling then the money goes into other countries and out of their country which is bad for them, because they want to keep money inside their borders not give it away.

That's the reason also why China and South Korea bans crypto, though in terms of gambling its more of the countries beliefs or religion, it's due to greediness one can experience when they keep on doing gambling too much that can lead to addiction and self destruction, that can also affect their community.

Well you don't blame gambling for people's addiction. Each has his own decision making and whether you'll be addiced or not will mostly be up to you. I can understand if some religion doesn't allow gambling ever since, but a person has to be responsible for the results of his actions.

[Kevin77]

you don't blame gambling for people's addiction. Each has his own decision making and whether you'll be addiced or not will mostly be up to you. I can understand if some religion doesn't allow gambling ever since, but a person has to be responsible for the results of his actions.

All human actions are based on their own preferences given that he is 18+ aged. Because only after that age he is capable of thinking in multiple ways and to foresee what are the consequence he may face for his actions. Gambling must be one of the action and it should be done only based on personal preferences and should not be due to some other suggestions/compulsion.

I am always playing gambling in a manner it should not affect any of my relationship. Because I value my relationships more than anything else hence I will not let gambling to affect it. Still, in some unfortunate situations gambling impacted my relationship but those were the situations which helped me to understand the real dangers of gambling.

[roxbit]

you don't blame gambling for people's addiction. Each has his own decision making and whether you'll be addiced or not will mostly be up to you. I can understand if some religion doesn't allow gambling ever since, but a person has to be responsible for the results of his actions.

All human actions are based on their own preferences given that he is 18+ aged. Because only after that age he is capable of thinking in multiple ways and to foresee what are the consequence he may face for his actions. Gambling must be one of the action and it should be done only based on personal preferences and should not be due to some other suggestions/compulsion.

I am always playing gambling in a manner it should not affect any of my relationship. Because I value my relationships more than anything else hence I will not let gambling to affect it. Still, in some unfortunate situations gambling impacted my relationship but those were the situations which helped me to understand the real dangers of gambling.

As a gambler there are lots of things that we may encounter specially when to comes to relationships. Sometimes our partners will get jealous of it when we tend to be addicted. But we should not ignore it because at the end of the day our relationship to our spouse must be the number one priority. We go home to them and they are the reasons why we need to earn money.  When we gamble we should  see to it that we have done what we supposed to have done in our respective household and in our work area  because we dont want to ruin our lives. Family must come first then recreation.

[bhabygrim]

My Girlfriend once saw me gambling in the internet back when we were just dating and she seem's interested in what I am playing and ask me about it,
Then she said that the game looks like fun game to play and exciting so I let her play it then I lost my money because of it but at least we both had fun while gambling.

[boyptc]

My Girlfriend once saw me gambling in the internet back when we were just dating and she seem's interested in what I am playing and ask me about it,
Then she said that the game looks like fun game to play and exciting so I let her play it then I lost my money because of it but at least we both had fun while gambling.

And that made your relationship reached a new goal? Gambling with your girlfriend looks nice in the first place but imagine if you had together and married with the same hobby of gambling where you would be landing if both of you keep on losing. That's the start of it when you're just having fun but when you started to get some decent profit, you'll be changing your thoughts about it. But best wishes and hope the best for your relationship.

[hahahafr]

What a wonderful story, why are you posting that crap? No one cares about that.

My Girlfriend once saw me gambling in the internet back when we were just dating and she seem's interested in what I am playing and ask me about it,

Anyway, i have some friends who are always gambling with me when we want to play some games on the casino, so i think that they are not affecting anything, since i gamble just for fun.

[Karmakid]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Nope for me it is not weird at all I used to play with my friends once and I think it is fun to gamble with your friends at the same time,
And sometimes I also play in some gambling site and let my brother play the game for me,
So for me it is not really weird at all.

[crwth]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Nope for me it is not weird at all I used to play with my friends once and I think it is fun to gamble with your friends at the same time,
And sometimes I also play in some gambling site and let my brother play the game for me,
So for me it is not really weird at all.

If you are close to someone, it won't be hard to do something that probably makes others uncomfortable because for sure, they would understand the things that you do. It wouldn't be weird like what you are trying to say. Being with someone that you are close to is definitely comfortable and be really yourself when you are with them.

[Caladonian]

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Nope for me it is not weird at all I used to play with my friends once and I think it is fun to gamble with your friends at the same time,
And sometimes I also play in some gambling site and let my brother play the game for me,
So for me it is not really weird at all.

If you are close to someone, it won't be hard to do something that probably makes others uncomfortable because for sure, they would understand the things that you do. It wouldn't be weird like what you are trying to say. Being with someone that you are close to is definitely comfortable and be really yourself when you are with them.

Good point mate, if you are comfortable playing along side with your loves ones or close friends then you are good to go, gambling will be much enjoyable
when you are with someone which adding the happiness along with you, there's some families which playing just to have some relaxation and win or lose they just treasuring the fun.
Sometimes we just need to understand and realize if the things that we are doing can benefits us or it will just another activity that will worsen our lives and our relationship with our love ones who doesn't understand what we are doing.

[Diced90]

it would be nice to do similar things with people you love but gambling with people you committed with for real money would be a bad idea as you could both become emotionally disturbed because of losses and your financing could be affected and lead to breaking up of the relationship or you could start getting loans from friends and fail to payback which leads to the end of your friendship

[eann014]

i have plenty of friends and neighbors who are both partners are gamblers they both play and enjoyed it,for me it's okay as long as they understand each other.

Yes, because it is important that both of them wants the same things it is very good for a couple than the other one are gambler while the other are not so there are possibilities that they don't undesirable each other.

Most couples are gambling are fucking brokes because if both lose they gonna sell everything in their house to sastified their gambling addicted . One is enough, two is misery.

Hahaha! If you the two of them are addicted, yeah that is misery, it is okay to play with some spare time both of couples, but getting addicted into it is not good. Playing gambling is just your bonding but don't make gambling as your life. In this generation we need to be practical.

I think this kind of couples we see very rarely. Suppose if both addicted people are in relationship i can't imagine how they will handle and how they will live there life. I never saw this kind of people in my life. If any of one person in family addicted to gambling, it would affect the owl family in that both addicted means what will happen just think once.

I heard a news before that the couple are addicted in casinos, they get rich instantly and they can buy what they want so they decided to play in casinos again and again and until the time comes that they lose all of it and get a lot of debt. This is very miserable because his wife supported him knowing that they can get back all their winnings which is not.

[pluMmet]

My Girlfriend once saw me gambling in the internet back when we were just dating and she seem's interested in what I am playing and ask me about it,
Then she said that the game looks like fun game to play and exciting so I let her play it then I lost my money because of it but at least we both had fun while gambling.

If someone you do not mind with gambling that you play on the internet then it will not be a good in gambled and relationship with a girlfriend, because if a girlfriend problematic with gambling that do so would be very disruptive relationships can be over her relationship with a girlfriend

[brightLIFE]

My Girlfriend once saw me gambling in the internet back when we were just dating and she seem's interested in what I am playing and ask me about it,
Then she said that the game looks like fun game to play and exciting so I let her play it then I lost my money because of it but at least we both had fun while gambling.

If someone you do not mind with gambling that you play on the internet then it will not be a good in gambled and relationship with a girlfriend, because if a girlfriend problematic with gambling that do so would be very disruptive relationships can be over her relationship with a girlfriend

How sweet but are you guys still together? Well in gambling, relationship with others is very important because if you had a bad problem with other person or your girlfriend I think you lose you money since you are thinking of your girlfriend.

[yoseph]

My Girlfriend once saw me gambling in the internet back when we were just dating and she seem's interested in what I am playing and ask me about it,
Then she said that the game looks like fun game to play and exciting so I let her play it then I lost my money because of it but at least we both had fun while gambling.

If someone you do not mind with gambling that you play on the internet then it will not be a good in gambled and relationship with a girlfriend, because if a girlfriend problematic with gambling that do so would be very disruptive relationships can be over her relationship with a girlfriend

Girlfriends hate it when their partners are gambling, they see it as a very big waste of money because there will be a lot of important things that you could be using the money to do but when you eventually win the jackpot, they will be so happy about it but they wouldn't want you to go back gambling again.

[Hell-raiser]

My Girlfriend once saw me gambling in the internet back when we were just dating and she seem's interested in what I am playing and ask me about it,
Then she said that the game looks like fun game to play and exciting so I let her play it then I lost my money because of it but at least we both had fun while gambling.

If someone you do not mind with gambling that you play on the internet then it will not be a good in gambled and relationship with a girlfriend, because if a girlfriend problematic with gambling that do so would be very disruptive relationships can be over her relationship with a girlfriend

Girlfriends hate it when their partners are gambling, they see it as a very big waste of money because there will be a lot of important things that you could be using the money to do but when you eventually win the jackpot, they will be so happy about it but they wouldn't want you to go back gambling again.

I kind of see where you are getting at here, though I'm not sure if you are knowingly meaning just that. Girls definitely wouldn't want us to waste as they think, or spend as we think money on gambling because this is the money they want us to spend, or waste, depending on which side of the coin you are, on them, huh! They are sort of jealous, at least as far as jealousy is applicable here.

It seems like you hit the nail on the head.

[payyy]

But that is not something easy to do. You need to understand that if you have a girlfriend who is always gambling with you, it could be more dangerous, because she could be encouraging you to gamble all your funds, and you will end up being a broken guy

it would be nice to do similar things with people you love but gambling with people you committed with for real money would be a bad idea as you could both become emotionally disturbed because of losses and your financing.

[Oilacris]

But that is not something easy to do. You need to understand that if you have a girlfriend who is always gambling with you, it could be more dangerous, because she could be encouraging you to gamble all your funds, and you will end up being a broken guy

it would be nice to do similar things with people you love but gambling with people you committed with for real money would be a bad idea as you could both become emotionally disturbed because of losses and your financing.

This case would really be hard if you are playing with your girlfriend on earlier stages you cant really refuse because you do love that person and her interest would be already your interest too which will mold you up gradually to be a gambler.If you are still right on mind and know the possible risk happen ahead then we should stand on our own decisions for good.