Is there a way to use a clean computer from viruses and download electrum on it and than send bitcoin to it, write down the phrase twice and password and than just delete the electrum software and all wallets?
and keep copy of a few addresses in case he wants to invest more?
Is this a safe way, because i don't want my grandpa to have bitcoin on his computer which is super slow (probably virus).
Yes, your procedure is right.
Just be sure to first install Electrum on a device which has no malware. It could be your own computer, a USB stick connected to a trusted device or even a linux distribution, in a USB.
Then, save your wallet, write your seeds on several piece of paper, along with addresses and private keys. You'll done!