How to build confidence with girls ?

[Lethn]

I've already read it, you need to proof read your previous post and use the edit button

[FirstAscent]

To everyone:

Clearly your difficulties with regard to making overtures to members of the female persuasion are due to this missing ingredient: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pmQTmFizuFY

[kimika]

I am a girl and the only way to build confidence is to talk to them. You won't be able to get better at talking to them unless you actually practice and you can only do that by talking to them. It's a catch 22. Girls aren't harder to talk to than guys it's just that your putting too much pressure on yourself as to where the talking could lead to. You can start by talking to girls that you don't have an attraction to so you can see them just as another person and not an intimadating girl and then when you feel more confident you can more easily approach girls you are attracted to and see how that goes. You do not have to talk about anything inparticular just be yourself and you will be able to connect with others. Also just take a breath and relax, as you said your friends talk to girls and people everywhere talk to girls so don't make it too much of a big deal in your head.
Hope that helped you.
Good Luck.

[infested999]

Is everyone in this thread autistic?

[kimika]

What do you mean by that?

[OracionSeis]

What do you mean by that?

I have seen you alot around here recently. Want to grab some dinner?

[Mike Christ]

Is everyone in this thread autistic?

If you're referring to Asperger's Syndrome, then in a way, you might say that; however, you must first assume Asperger's is a real condition, which just happens to have the same traits as a specific personality type.  I've seen actual autistic people who have an actual disability, and "high-functioning autism" is not autism at all.

So it depends on how you're looking at it, whether or not you believe Asperger's is even a thing.  AFAIK the only confirmed autistic member here is kokjo, but most everyone else is just of the INTP/INTJ sort.

[FiatKiller]

I think the food store is a great place to practice or meet women. EVERYONE has to buy food, unless they are Madonna, etc.
Start with asking typical questions a guy wouldn't know or what aisle to find something in. Then walk away without any obvious intent to be trying to pick them up. They might suspect that you are and this will show that you really just had a question. But, because people typically shop in the same store week after week at the same time frame, you may run into ones you like again. I like the suggestion of starting with ones you don't find attractive.

[dank]

Find yourself and you will find your soul mate.  I found my soul on LSD, it may work for you.