Well I think you have an opinion based on a few experiences that you had and it's kinda not right to call out the whole system for them.
while in bitcoin its cheap (True in wiring fee ONLY ) and Fast(True)
So I guess the two points that are arguable are already in favor of crypto.
BUT the do not speak about the tough joinery of how to get Bitcoin in first place
you need of the following
1- 1 year of mining
2- 3 weeks to be verified by exchange plus 5$ -10% more buy 1 bitcoin 12000$ you pay 600$ -1200$ acquisition fee (which is crazy )
Well first of all, I guess you totally know that you don't HAVE to mine to get some bitcoins. It's only if you're interested.
Second thing. Why are you blaming bitcoins or crypto in general if these rules/regulations are applied by exchanges
They're organizations which are trying to make profits as much as possible. You can't say this is a disadvantage by any means as you're not forced at all to buy from them.
3- local bitcoin the most expensive option 20% but the fastest (no exchange needed to verification ) but each bitcoin acquisition fee is 2400$
Same thing. You don't have to deal with anyone whose price isn't good as you want them to be. The best thing to buy or sell would be to do the same thing I did. Found a group of people who are into trading and mining (invested in crypto in general) and we made a group on whatsapp. Now we sell and buy from each other locally cash in hand. No fees. Nothing. Everyone happy. Try doing the same thing.
4- accept bitcoin as a payment for your service (which assume your customers already bitcoin owners)
This is actually a good point. If you sell or offer a service, accepting btc would be an easy way to get your hands on crypto with zero fees.
we need to fix this two issues
1- the speed of getting the coin
2- the acquisition fee dropped to 1% or less
Nothing can be done to fix these by any of us. And what does an ICO have to do with anything you talked about ?