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男人最愿意宠的,一定是这种女人
December 07, 2017, 04:46:54 PM
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原标题:男人最愿意宠的,一定是这种女人文| 李月亮老是哭醒。这四个字木姐连着说了三遍,每一遍气息都更弱,哀伤感扑面而来。她和松哥离婚三年了,但始终放不下,确切地说,是越来越放不下。去年松哥再婚,她重度抑郁了大半年,到现在还没好,还是常在深夜里哭醒。松哥以前待她太好。房子车子都写她的名,上班送下班接,每个月给她订花,吃鱼要帮她挑了刺。她丑了胖了长痘了他从未嫌弃。她喜欢的人讨厌的东西他如数家珍可是,就是这么无条件宠溺她的人,居然因为一次吵架就离开了,而且死不回头。木姐说:我就是不明白,他明明那么爱我,我们怎么就回不去了呢。我和松哥不熟,但还是为木姐去找了他。其实人家已经再婚一年,再请他处理前妻的情绪已经非常不合适。所以一见面我就申明:如果不方便,千万别为难,就当我没来过。松哥笑:你是怕我老婆生气吧?放心不会的,她特别明事理,跟木木不一样。然后我听到了跟木姐口中不太一样的离婚版本。松哥的陈述是,他之前确实特别爱木姐,什么都愿意为她做,不想让她受一点苦受半点委屈,可是慢慢的,木姐越来越恃宠而骄,整天对他颐指气使,喝水要他倒内裤要他洗,厨房不进拖把不摸,他晚饭做得不合口她一口都不吃,他买的花她不喜欢要甩脸好几天,他想回老家她心情不好就坚决不许松哥后来意识到自己把老婆宠坏了,想调整,但是积重难返,改不过来了。他越来越郁闷,但是木姐丝毫没察觉。直到有一次,松哥出差,凌晨两点才回家。第二天早上木姐上班,照例喊他开车去送。他困得不行,说:老婆你打个车吧。木姐说:那怎么行,万一打不上迟到怎么办。他说:那就坐公交。她说:我不想坐公交。然后死活拉着松哥起床。松哥就炸了,说:你干嘛呀怎么就不能体谅一下我。俩人大吵一架,话都说得特别过火。木姐没想到松哥居然这么对她,接受不了,没完没了闹,松哥反复道歉都不行,最后绝望了,说要不就离婚吧。木姐更急了,说离,必须离。就这么离了。木姐一直认为是一气之下的冲动。松哥却觉得是走到尽头的必然。木姐很快就后悔了。松哥却越来越坚定。俩人一起聊过几次,木姐使尽解数花样挽回,松哥其实也是心软,但一想到之前的日子,他整个人就颓了。松哥再婚的老婆是相亲认识的。谈不上多深的感情,觉得合适就在一起了。掉过坑的人,都会格外谨慎。松哥起初接受教训,不敢对老婆太好。上班下班她自己走,做饭洗衣两个人来,她有什么要求他掂量着应,再也不像以前那样,老婆一句话,就刀山火海万死不辞。但是慢慢的,他发现女人和女人差别太大了。现在的老婆心里特别有数。他给她买点好吃的回来,她就开开心心地一边吃一边给他捶背。他出差给岳母带个保健仪,她下次逛商场就给婆婆选个大衣。他吃鱼给她挑了刺,她就削了苹果切成小块给他吃。反正他对她好一分,她会回他两三分。松哥渐渐知道了,这个老婆是宠不坏的,只会越宠越好。于是之前的警戒全面解除,他对她越来越好,再次沦为宠妻狂魔。而这一段婚姻和上一段截然不同,上一段是公主和仆佣的渐渐失衡,这一次,是你来我往的互相疼。松哥最后说,他是特别愿意宠老婆的男人,可并不是所有女人都经得起宠。所以他特别庆幸娶了现在的老婆,虽然他最初爱她不及木姐十分之一,但这一桩婚姻给他的幸福,是之前的十倍。女人特别喜欢说老婆是用来宠的宠老婆的才是好男人。我倒也喜欢这说法,但客观说,确实有些女人,是经不起宠的。木姐的同类非常多:理所当然地享用着男人的宠爱,越宠越傲娇,越傲娇越无理,越无理越得寸进尺、变本加厉。你今天做了早饭,好嘞,以后早饭都是你的事儿了。你今天送我上了班,ok,以后你就是我专职司机了。这次吵架你哄我,下次必须还是你。这次点菜听我的,以后次次都要听我的慢慢地就宠上了天惯出了病,自己越来越得意,男人越来越憋屈。可是人都不傻,最后他肯定要问一句凭什么。凭什么我疼你爱你哄你宠你一切顺着你,而我没尊严没地位没回报没半点好处。我怎么这么贱啊我。一旦他醒悟,好日子也就到头了。其实这世上哪有什么必须宠着你的人,夫妻之间所有的我对你好,背后都是有期待的。他给你做早餐,期待的是你给他一个甜美笑脸,说老公你最好了。而不是你冷脸皱眉指责煎蛋煎过了。他送你上下班,期待的是两个人一路闲扯一路陪伴的亲密好时光。而不是自己困得要死还要被吼叫着挣扎起床去完成义务。你满足了他的期待,他才愿意为你,千千万万遍。否则,他宠你的动力在哪里?很多男人不敢对女人太好,就是因为一宠她,她便觉得自己多么好,就变成了骄傲的公主,就更加自私自我无视男人的感受。这样的女人,男人宠了一回,就不敢再宠第二回。就算嫁个宠妻狂魔,最后也可能爆冷出局。因为她的智慧、格局、能力都有限,被人性的贪婪所操控,受不起这样的宠。而聪明的女人,会给男人宠自己的理由。像松哥的现任那样;;你对我好,我变本加厉对你好;你给我的,我添枝加叶再给你。这样的女人是清醒、理性并且有大格局的。她知道亲密关系的本质是什么,也懂得付出才有回报的道理。当她得到男人足够的宠爱,她回报给他的,肯定不是一个花样作死的祖宗,而是更好的老婆,更美的生活,更暖的家。她能让男人觉得自己做什么都特别值,所以就什么都愿意为她做。男人愿意无底线宠爱几十年的,一定是这种经得起宠的女人。
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