I understand.. Is there an alternative to paypal i could regisrer that accepts diners cards/doscover? Thst does not have policy like paypal
Yes there is an alternative. You can go to an ATM and withdraw the cash from that Diners card (or get a cash advance at a bank). Then with the cash in hand, you can buy the bitcoins and pay for them using a safer method. Western Union and Moneygram for example. If you use this payment method and suggest that the transaction be done with escrow, I'm sure you will get a long list of offers here.
Both PayPal and credit cards are reversible and high risk payment methods. It will be difficult to find someone wiling to take the risk. PayPal payments can be disputed and reversed up to 180 days. Imagine that. Credit cards allow you to dispute and chargeback up to 45 to 120 days. You can read all about it here:
http://thechargebackcompany.com/chargeback-time-limit/