no i didn't get scared i just want to understand how it work, my concern was about if i move the forked bitcoin, my bitcoin will move together with them, but you are saying the opposite, that the forked coin will move
It depends on the specifics of the lack of replay protection. Sometimes replay protection is availabe in one direction and not the other. If replay protection is not available in either direction, then the following is also true:
Lets imagine you have some bitcoins.
Now lets imagine that a new Bitcoin Fork happens (we'll call the fork Bitcoin-Replay for the sake of this conversation), and that this fork does NOT have replay protection.
Now, after the fork, lets say you send some of your Bitcoin-Replay coins to a new Bitcoin-Replay address (a merchant, or an exchange, or whatever).
Because there is no replay protection, anybody can take your Bitcoin-Replay transaction and re-broadcast that same transaction on the Bitcoin network. When they do, the exact same amount of Bitcoins will be sent to the exact same address on in the Bitcoin system (even though you only intended to send your Bitcoin-Replay coins and not your Bitcoins).
That is a "replay attack" because the Bitcoin-Replay transaction was "replayed" on the Bitcoin network.
It won't matter if your Bitcoin-Replay transaction has 10,000 confirmations, or if your Bitcoin-Replay coins were sent a thousand more times. That initial Bitcoin-Replay Transaction is STILL a valid Bitcoin transaction and can STILL be sent on the Bitcoin network, forcing your Bitcoins to move without your permission.
Now, if
YOU send all of your Bitcoins to a new address intentionally, as soon as that transaction gets 1 confirmation the Bitcoin-Replay transaction will no longer be valid on the Bitcoin network. It will no longer be possible to replay the Bitcoin-Replay transaction on the Bitcoin system.
which mean that at worst i would lose the forked coin...
Possible, or possibly not. It all depends on the specific implementation of the fork and what sort of replay protections are available in each direction.
which make sense because this is the one without replay protection
It is possible to create a fork that has a transaction format that is valid on the Bitcoin network. In that case, then fork transaction can be replayed on the Bitcoin network.
also the address format is different how can the forked coin can be sent to the exaxt same address?
That depends on the specifics of how the transaction is formatted in the forked system. There aren't actually any addresses in Bitcoin transactions. Addresses are something that our wallets use in the user interface to make it easier for us to work with the concept of transferring control over value. In the actual transaction there is just a script. In the case (as an example) of a P2PKH address (Bitcoin addresses that start with a 1) the script includes a hash of the ECDSA public key.
The fork might choose a different address representation, but if it uses a similar scripting system and similar hashes, then the value can still be transferred even though the wallet uses a different address to show the user, because the underlying transaction might still be the same on both systems.