how can i find the lost wallet, with only knowing the receive adress. (i know the password of the lost wallet).
Aside from the fact that you're using Verge, the short answer is you cannot regenerate an (Electrum) wallet file with just a receive address and the password... You need the 12 word seed that you would have had to write down when you created the wallet.
One other option is to scan your computer using data recovery software like EaseUs or Recuva etc to see if the wallet file was accidentally deleted.
It won't be easy, because Electrum doesn't use file extensions for wallet files... ie. it is just called "default_wallet" not "wallet.dat" etc... and you can name it pretty much anything, so it isn't even necessarily called "default_wallet"