I didn't see any difference in performance from the windows update. Security is an issue but I've installed tiny firewall to stop updates and / or any other traffic from getting in and out of my rigs. I set it to learn my miner and then turn it to lock everything else down. Just a note - tiny firewall shouldn't be installed remotely as when you run the installer it'll shut every connection including your remote.
My rigs all updated last year, and the new update is set to automatically share updates to machines nearby which used my bandwidth
thus I went for the firewall and locked it all down.
Do you really need the update? If it's security maybe lock it down with a firewall? Sounds like a lot of work to get it to update and possible down time