Does your family past incidents effect you?

[Supercrypt]

If you forbid something to a kid then kid will find that even more attractive. Forbidding anything will have contra effects in most situations.
I believe people hear many bad stories about gambling generally, sometimes with family members involved, that's always makes situation more complicated.
I'm not affected by any of this stories because I started to gamble with sports betting with friends from soccer, more seriously gambling came after. I build my way alone, and I know how to handle with gambling. Its something you need to learn. When we are about that its important for very life aspect you can think off, you need to know how to handle with good and bad times, and to not let something to lead you in crash or disaster of any kind. Gambling is special because you can climb fast, but you can fall even faster, don't fool yourself its like that in everything just time for climbing and falling is different.
Learn kids how to control their emotions and how to properly decide what is good and what is bad, if you try with forbidding kids will try to find a way to skip your bans and to try that sweet forbidden things.

If you do not forbid it anyway and keep quiet about it, the kid will still find it attractive if he or she wants to. However, it is better to forbid it in a wise way than not to forbid it at all. A lot of people have forbidden things without even explaining why it is wrong. Paint a very bad picture of what gambling does to a kid, and you will surprise it would never leave their head for the rest of their life.

I remember how my dad used to tell me how my granddad ruined his life from being a wealthy man to a pauper as a result of gambling. That shit stuck. Gambling itself is not usually the problem anyway, it is always us and most times, those who are greedy naturally are always the ones who usually end up falling into the trap of addiction when it comes to gambling.

Family past incidents will always play an effect in the minds of those who may want to consider gambling since they could have seen some family members that gambling has had an adverse effect on before and hence use that in their own decision making when it comes to gambling.

[redsun114]

When you see your uncle and your grandfather lose everything by gambling, do you still want to gamble? If you still want to gamble, please gamble but you should be prepared if if you fail and end up like your uncle and grandfather. When you are forbidden to gamble by your family, you can still gamble in secret, but you must accept the consequences if you get caught.

This even happens in different families that if the elders lost everything in gambling, they often advice their juniors not to involve in gambling ever. Really if anyone have been to this stage where he once had everything and now he is just zero status person, such people always advice others to keep themselves away from gambling. They know it better that it is nothing but a trap.

[alfs75]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

My explanation about this,that gambling is not like a disease  that incurable,so there is nothing wrong in gambling as long you know your limits of when you should stop to play the games,and you know how to divide  your time of your family and to your habits or recreation of yourself,in other words you know how to control yourself,so that  you would not become addicted in gambling so that you dont be like your uncle become lossing of his entire asset.

[Caladonian]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

My explanation about this,that gambling is not like a disease  that incurable,so there is nothing wrong in gambling as long you know your limits of when you should stop to play the games,and you know how to divide  your time of your family and to your habits or recreation of yourself,in other words you know how to control yourself,so that  you would not become addicted in gambling so that you dont be like your uncle become lossing of his entire asset.

It's a good example, where you can make this as a basis on what will be the possibilities if you will engage yourself inside this activity, we can easily say
that knowing how to control and setting up limitations will allow us to avoid such things, but considering the numbers of addicted gamblers, its really
not that easy so better to always look beyond and those possible outcome of your actions, experience of someone can give us some light in order not
to do the same mistake.

[ubitcoin]

Family past incidents will always play an effect in the minds of those who may want to consider gambling since they could have seen some family members that gambling has had an adverse effect on before and hence use that in their own decision making when it comes to gambling.

When family members do hide such incidents for the reason of shame or not encouraging then new generation of people get fail to make use of those incidents. I am saying this because my father hides his many frustrating gambling incidents. If he would have shared then that might have given me a change.

[BaraxLo]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

My explanation about this,that gambling is not like a disease  that incurable,so there is nothing wrong in gambling as long you know your limits of when you should stop to play the games,and you know how to divide  your time of your family and to your habits or recreation of yourself,in other words you know how to control yourself,so that  you would not become addicted in gambling so that you dont be like your uncle become lossing of his entire asset.

It's a good example, where you can make this as a basis on what will be the possibilities if you will engage yourself inside this activity, we can easily say
that knowing how to control and setting up limitations will allow us to avoid such things, but considering the numbers of addicted gamblers, its really
not that easy so better to always look beyond and those possible outcome of your actions, experience of someone can give us some light in order not
to do the same mistake.

It is better to learn from the mistakes of others instead of trying out everything by your own and those who really follow this way are clever ones.A gambler must have limits but every individual has a different nature and some people are not very good at controlling their urge for any pleasure. Instead of getting impressed be a calm gambler, one must focus on is it possible to have a nature like him.

[d1ceplayer]

A yes and no. Yes, since our family is a generation of Gamblers from our great grandfather to our generation. Well, a number of our relatives became so addicted to gambling that costs there family, work, business, relationship, and life. So our elders tend to limit us to gamble and tons of advise were handed to us. No, given the fact that we are prone to addiction I still chose or decide to gamble anyway for the sake of acceptance.

You people haven’t done anything wrong here because you people have got gambling as a generation gift. But one thing here which I would oppose here is that no matter if you have generation of gamblers but still you people can easily change your way of living with gambling and if you people don’t change, then this is your mistake and you people would have to face the consequences of gambling in your future.