Does your family past incidents effect you?

[Wowcoin]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Don't bother their problem, maybe their family is not really good in gambling so maybe it is okay for your friend not to gamble so he will not making another loss for their family. It is not also good that you push your friend to an activity that is no assurance that he will really win. You all both know that gambling is just a matter of luck and if you don't have luck you will not gain profit in gambling.

You are right maybe tell to his friend that gambling is need a luck to win and much better tell him that gambling is not good especially that his history are losing all their money. Tell him to stop gambling than he can lost also everything he has.

[The_prodigy]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Yes, in a way seeing a part of my family getting addicted to gambling. Hearing a female family member rant that his husband or partner is spending most of his time with friends and betting on cockfighting. He may also do it in a way, that slowly he may be choosing obssessively and that creates a negative impression on excessive gambling and that is effective to me

[Oilacris]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Don't bother their problem, maybe their family is not really good in gambling so maybe it is okay for your friend not to gamble so he will not making another loss for their family. It is not also good that you push your friend to an activity that is no assurance that he will really win. You all both know that gambling is just a matter of luck and if you don't have luck you will not gain profit in gambling.

You are right maybe tell to his friend that gambling is need a luck to win and much better tell him that gambling is not good especially that his history are losing all their money. Tell him to stop gambling than he can lost also everything he has.

Giving advices specially to your friend might able to convince him or not on playing gambling but it would really be worth a try since we do have already the idea on the possible things might happen ahead on playing too much gambling but if he do insist on playing or proceeding and taking aside all of your advices then its his choice as long we wont be blamed because we did already tell him on the possible things might be experienced.

[emberbekas]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

What your friends' family do in my opinion is true. They do not want their family members to suffer the same fate as them, in regards with gambling. You should tell your friends to follow his family's suggestions.

[noormcs5]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Yes, in a way seeing a part of my family getting addicted to gambling. Hearing a female family member rant that his husband or partner is spending most of his time with friends and betting on cockfighting. He may also do it in a way, that slowly he may be choosing obssessively and that creates a negative impression on excessive gambling and that is effective to me

Actually gambling not suit for everyone, but you have lesson from your family member's past bad experience of gambling. So same here in this thread asking us. But i aware you that everyone has his own luck and different luck, it is not fact that everyone will be fail in gambling.

[Kelvinid]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

What your friends' family do in my opinion is true. They do not want their family members to suffer the same fate as them, in regards with gambling. You should tell your friends to follow his family's suggestions.

I had never been in a situation like this since all of my family members are not into gambling,but maybe for vices like being alcoholic.They always warn me not to drink too much everytime there are occassions i attended.But in your case,do not make it as a major problem.Let your friend follow his family's suggestions and advices because they are just thinking for his own good.

[serjent05]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Yes, in a way seeing a part of my family getting addicted to gambling. Hearing a female family member rant that his husband or partner is spending most of his time with friends and betting on cockfighting. He may also do it in a way, that slowly he may be choosing obssessively and that creates a negative impression on excessive gambling and that is effective to me

Actually gambling not suit for everyone, but you have lesson from your family member's past bad experience of gambling. So same here in this thread asking us. But i aware you that everyone has his own luck and different luck, it is not fact that everyone will be fail in gambling.

I do agree, but everyone think gambling is for them me included lol.  But the bitter truth is, if we failed to control ourselves or take lesson from the people around us, we will failed to see what is waiting for us at the end when we become addicted to gambling.  That is why, there should be an effect when there is incidents around us especially within family/relative members have a failed result because of gambling.  We do not need to experience stuff to learn, we can set other experience as example.

[carodupuis]

My family past incidents doesn't affect me from gambling but my religion do,because gambling is like a sin in my religion so sometimes I am afraid to do gambling but not always.But I am not a full time gambler so I think it is okay to gamble sometimes but not always.

It is not my thing to talk about religion stuff or judge someone on it because I don’t hold the right to do so but I have one believe that if someone is follower of any particular religion, he should abide by its rules. I am not criticizing you and you also are not a gambling addict but my sincere advice is to not get involved into betting if your religion prohibits it. Apart from this, gambling is just a wastage of money and time so better staying away from it.

[mamahdedeh]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Playing gambling is not a good thing, you will only experience a bad thing and your life will be destroyed if you keep trying to do gambling game. Believe that gambling is not the right choice. With any purpose like to seek entertainment or to get a job then gambling is the wrong thing. Many people have experienced bad things and destruction in their lives when getting to know Gambling. We must learn from the various circumstances that exist because then we can know what is good and not for the life we have.

[richkellj]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

My family had face the same incident too. My father was a gambler when I was at grade school. We had a comfortable life way back then. We had a big house built in a hectare lot. We can have want we want and eat what we to eat because father has lots of money. But, when the luck is not on his side and addicted to gambling, we slowly lost everything we had. I was able to witnessed how was the gambling affected our family and even me. I am now very cautious in betting and making sure that I might not get addicted into it.

The problem is so many people start by having some pretty good luck from the start, and then rather than pulling out a little, they get greedy over time and feel they can even put in more and then win more, until they start running out of luck. Where the craziness starts from is trying to recover, and then they lose it. Anyone who already experienced a family's past incident like this will always know better and will always caution themselves to take note of those mistakes or to not even gamble at all.

[Menuotares]

Yes i am also, have uncle addict in gambling. From what was originally a millionaire is now a rough-handed worker in an iron factory. When i tried to gamble, he rebuked me. He said: "I saving you, doesn't want to fall poor like me and enough me, not my nephew."

[panjul07]

Yes i am also, have uncle addict in gambling. From what was originally a millionaire is now a rough-handed worker in an iron factory. When i tried to gamble, he rebuked me. He said: "I saving you, doesn't want to fall poor like me and enough me, not my nephew."

It is good to learn from other's experience but it is still your own choice whether to gamble or not after looking the fact of your uncle. As long as you can control yourself, gambling would never make you poor. Someone get into poorness because of gambling means that he/she could not control and manage him/herself while gambling. There is one key to avoid the worst thing "KNOW YOUR LIMIT".

[robotrobert]

No,Any of my family circumstances doesn't affect me from the gambling like family situations,because if I want to gamble I will and never look for anyone's permission.
But most of the players are still continue to gamble if their family is in bad financial situation,maybe in the thought that they can increase it by winning a jackpot on someday but it is a bad idea.

It's really a very big mistake when we are leaning to gambling in terms of getting instant fortune, gambling should be taken as a source of short time
enjoyment and nothing should be greater than that, we also need to consider our financial capability as gambling really affecting this factor in our life
if we do have spare money then we are good to go, not risking our saving for our family needs would allow you to enjoy your stay without any problem
quitting and thinking of others opinion.

A pretty huge one and the main reason a lot of people get addicted. If gambling will make everyone a fortune, how on earth are the casino owners and gambling site owners making their money and living large. It still baffles me if some people really do not think or they just end up allowing their greedy self to take full control of them. Anyone looking for an income would be better off doing something else, if they cannot cope with the idea of losing all their funds.

[crwth]

No,Any of my family circumstances doesn't affect me from the gambling like family situations,because if I want to gamble I will and never look for anyone's permission.
But most of the players are still continue to gamble if their family is in bad financial situation,maybe in the thought that they can increase it by winning a jackpot on someday but it is a bad idea.

It's really a very big mistake when we are leaning to gambling in terms of getting instant fortune, gambling should be taken as a source of short time
enjoyment and nothing should be greater than that, we also need to consider our financial capability as gambling really affecting this factor in our life
if we do have spare money then we are good to go, not risking our saving for our family needs would allow you to enjoy your stay without any problem
quitting and thinking of others opinion.

A pretty huge one and the main reason a lot of people get addicted. If gambling will make everyone a fortune, how on earth are the casino owners and gambling site owners making their money and living large. It still baffles me if some people really do not think or they just end up allowing their greedy self to take full control of them. Anyone looking for an income would be better off doing something else, if they cannot cope with the idea of losing all their funds.

They would cope up with the idea of losing their funds but as you can see, it would really be hurtful knowing that you could lose the money. They would come to that point where they have already lost. The control is part of the success that can make you not addicted to gambling. It's not going to be easy to quit if you are already addicted to gambling, but the where you use the money is more important.

[bitcoinisbest]

Yes i am also, have uncle addict in gambling. From what was originally a millionaire is now a rough-handed worker in an iron factory. When i tried to gamble, he rebuked me. He said: "I saving you, doesn't want to fall poor like me and enough me, not my nephew."

This is the perfect example of how gambling can destroy the dreams or your present scenario and make your future in a dark. This happens when you do gamble for money and now for entertainment and enjoy the game. If people understood the difference between the 2 things it will be more valuable for them to gamble at times only.

[katrimans]

It doesn't effect me, but I can learn and aware from their experience for my future. I hope it will happen again in me.
For gambling we must can control our emotional and set the budget for play the gambling. If not will lose much money.
So that the important and simple things before do gambling.

It is pretty good you have a way to control your greed. Emotion is normal, but when that impulse comes up, it is easy to say one should control. A lot of people attack you when you say they should take gambling as fun and never gamble with what they cannot afford to lose which balls down to what you mentioned about having a gambling budget and once you are done with it, walk away and also have a target for winning and apply the same rule. Anyone who cannot imagine they can lose everything should better just disappear than get them engaged.

[Shikaina]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

I dont have this kind of experience but i know a family of gamblers who’ve lost a lot. From riches to rags i call it. If ever i encounter the same situation i would encourage my friend to avoid gambling at all. Experience is the best teacher and he doesnt have to repeat the same mistakes his parends and grand parents did. The proof is visible.

[noormcs5]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

I dont have this kind of experience but i know a family of gamblers who’ve lost a lot. From riches to rags i call it. If ever i encounter the same situation i would encourage my friend to avoid gambling at all. Experience is the best teacher and he doesnt have to repeat the same mistakes his parends and grand parents did. The proof is visible.

Exactly, if our family or other-ones which we like him, if he has bad experience of gambling just like in the thread, his uncle have lost his all assets because of gambling, then definitely we have a lesson and think about gambling that is bad way.
But on the other hand, if anyone in our family who become rich from gambling, then definitely we will think that gambling is a easiest and superb way to get money easily and become rich. SO, it is depend on our experience which we get from gambling. 

[Finestream]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

I dont have this kind of experience but i know a family of gamblers who’ve lost a lot. From riches to rags i call it. If ever i encounter the same situation i would encourage my friend to avoid gambling at all. Experience is the best teacher and he doesnt have to repeat the same mistakes his parends and grand parents did. The proof is visible.

It all depends on past experiences whether good or bad.Of course if it's really bad,it should be avoided not to happen again.I have not experienced like this but to tell you honestly,gambling does not sounds good in my family even if my father has always been in a cock fighting game.But good to know he is not really making it as a serious one,he just go along with his friends whenever they invite him,or sometimes go alone without really much money on hand.

[serjent05]

Yes i am also, have uncle addict in gambling. From what was originally a millionaire is now a rough-handed worker in an iron factory. When i tried to gamble, he rebuked me. He said: "I saving you, doesn't want to fall poor like me and enough me, not my nephew."

This is the perfect example of how gambling can destroy the dreams or your present scenario and make your future in a dark. This happens when you do gamble for money and now for entertainment and enjoy the game. If people understood the difference between the 2 things it will be more valuable for them to gamble at times only.

I believe it does not matter whether you gamble to make profit or gamble to have fun.  What matters is how you control yourself while playing.  Indeed it is the moderation and self discipline that matters.  having full control of yourself during the game will difinitely saves us from being addicted to gambling.  Though I believe previous family incident have nothing to do or effect wether you will have control to yourself or not.