Hi - in this deal the buyer is wary of the seller....
Its not about the Paypal.
Thanks.
due to the mechanics of the trade, the person PMing is selling bitcoin and accepting paypal.
this means that if the person does not deliver, OP, the buyer, can easily get their money back. as you can then see, it does not matter who sends first what so ever. for being around longer than me, you should know this by now. especially because you espouse yourself o be a bitcoin trader.
you saying this isn't about paypal is like saying this thread isn't about bitcoin.