Walk of Shame

[Ridwan Fauzi]

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

Even though we don't know the truth he said, I feel the luck factor that he approaches every bet. Ability to control himself only affects the money management side and does not control the winning side he gets. He must tell us about the way he gets every gamble, maybe it would be better so as we don't walk of shame when we have played gambling.

[peter0425]

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

Hard to say or hard to control yourself once you're inside of a casino. There are people who said in the beginning that they will control their emotions, but once they're inside, they don't know what happened to them because most of them literally forgot their so-called control. So just enjoy though and have fun and I'm sure the winnings will come, no need to force it otherwise you can't control your greed, the feeling of losing is hard to swallow that makes you want to bet more and more until such time that you don't have any money left and not even for a cab fare.

[passwordnow]

I think you just felt ashamed all by yourself because your families doesn't know where have you been and what have you done, particularly in your kids. You feel ashame if your kids asking something to buy and you have nothing to give because you loss in such an addiction gambling.

As OP said we have other interpretations of 'walk of shame'. This kind of shame is totally going to through your heart if you can't give something for your kids because you have lost because of gambling. But base on the situation, his kids witnessed him to get into their house without anything to say because he came from a long walk of lost. Having this kind of shame from your wife and kids would get into their minds and everybody must learn from OP's lesson.

[Finestream]

I think you just felt ashamed all by yourself because your families doesn't know where have you been and what have you done, particularly in your kids. You feel ashame if your kids asking something to buy and you have nothing to give because you loss in such an addiction gambling.

As OP said we have other interpretations of 'walk of shame'. This kind of shame is totally going to through your heart if you can't give something for your kids because you have lost because of gambling. But base on the situation, his kids witnessed him to get into their house without anything to say because he came from a long walk of lost. Having this kind of shame from your wife and kids would get into their minds and everybody must learn from OP's lesson.

This is really a shameful one.You should always be responsible for whatever the consequences of your wrong doing.For me,i have been addicted to gambling too but still i managed to leave a fare for myself in going home.I think it's just a matter of discipline.We gamblers should always know our limits in gambling so that we will never go home pennyless.

[matchi2011]

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

Aggressive and not so well balance attitude will lead you to this shameful act, people who suffer with this type gambling problem endanger their
self and their love ones, without any control with your money you will suffer big loses, you can keep playing and risking every centavos that you
have thinking that luck will be there for you.

[virasog]

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

If you spent all of your money in casino and lost of it, then you will not only feel shame in front of your wife and family but also it will be troublesome for you too as your money is lost and now how will you meet your daily expenses. In extreme cases, you have to take loan and it will further make your life tough.

[shoreno]

walk of shame is the opposite of walk of fame  but in the case of the op that cant be considered a shameful . loosing is not shameful but rather it is stressful , depressful and regretful  .  so what if you loose ? loosing  is normal and there is nothing wrong with it . it is only shameful if you are stealling someones money and then you loose it all in gambling  .

@op just tell them the truth and move on  . basic !

[ethereumhunter]

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

If you spent all of your money in casino and lost of it, then you will not only feel shame in front of your wife and family but also it will be troublesome for you too as your money is lost and now how will you meet your daily expenses. In extreme cases, you have to take loan and it will further make your life tough.

I guess that he will have some conversation with his family and even the bad words will come out because he loses all of his money. That is what we will get if we are lost and we were telling to other people because not all people around us can accept for our lose and they can blame for what we've done. So maybe he can make a choice not to tells other people about his losses, but he doesn't need to play gambling again in the other days.

[Thanasis]

walk of shame is the opposite of walk of fame  but in the case of the op that cant be considered a shameful . loosing is not shameful but rather it is stressful , depressful and regretful  .  so what if you loose ? loosing  is normal and there is nothing wrong with it . it is only shameful if you are stealling someones money and then you loose it all in gambling  .

@op just tell them the truth and move on  . basic !

But it is really shame when they use money o betting which is important for their family to survive on that day and lose it so that is the reason people don't have to gamble with the money which is important for something like for our family.

[Johnzky]

Yeah i did once,when i am invited by a friend to play online casino things that first time for me because i use to play in actual casino or in my local gambling places,but online casino is different that i enjoyed alot and not noticing all my money had been spent and in the end i go home empty handed lucky that my firnd had an extra amount so I asked for crediting my taxi fare lol.i will never allow my self having this again since i am now a occasional gambler for my family is the first in my mind before anything else

[Yaunfitda]

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

If you spent all of your money in casino and lost of it, then you will not only feel shame in front of your wife and family but also it will be troublesome for you too as your money is lost and now how will you meet your daily expenses. In extreme cases, you have to take loan and it will further make your life tough.

I guess that he will have some conversation with his family and even the bad words will come out because he loses all of his money. That is what we will get if we are lost and we were telling to other people because not all people around us can accept for our lose and they can blame for what we've done. So maybe he can make a choice not to tells other people about his losses, but he doesn't need to play gambling again in the other days.

Again, I don't know if those people who are really addicted and have experienced the walk of shame has the willingness to tell their family what really happened. And I'm sure that you will hear every excuses in the book and will not admit that they have lost everything in a casino.

It's really hard to be addicted in gambling and unless you can control your emotions and will just play to have some fun, then you won't be experience this so called 'walk of shame'. It's hard and brutal and it is really painful to experience it.

[romero121]

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

If you spent all of your money in casino and lost of it, then you will not only feel shame in front of your wife and family but also it will be troublesome for you too as your money is lost and now how will you meet your daily expenses. In extreme cases, you have to take loan and it will further make your life tough.

I guess that he will have some conversation with his family and even the bad words will come out because he loses all of his money. That is what we will get if we are lost and we were telling to other people because not all people around us can accept for our lose and they can blame for what we've done. So maybe he can make a choice not to tells other people about his losses, but he doesn't need to play gambling again in the other days.

Again, I don't know if those people who are really addicted and have experienced the walk of shame has the willingness to tell their family what really happened. And I'm sure that you will hear every excuses in the book and will not admit that they have lost everything in a casino.

It's really hard to be addicted in gambling and unless you can control your emotions and will just play to have some fun, then you won't be experience this so called 'walk of shame'. It's hard and brutal and it is really painful to experience it.

Very few might say the story to the family once after succeeding through gambling. None should experience such hard times, and the same is because of our over confidence to win big. This isn't possible if we aren't lucky. After getting into a married life he needs to be more responsible. The kids are completely dependent upon him., the impact of addiction is felt over the entire family and his surroundings. Understanding this one should not go beyond his limits in any circumstances.

[swogerino]

Walk of shame is when you are addicted and spend all your money in the casino losing them, knowing that you need that money for monthly expenses and making it heavy on your family.

I don't think any wife will support such husband for a long time so it is this case whoch can be considered as a walk of shame as you should feel shameful for your act.

In some rare cases this may lead to good thinking from the individual suffering this and call it to stop.

[JohnBitCo]

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

Well, if a gambler is an experienced one , he would have much control over his emotions. He might lose in gambling and yet he will not feel shame as he is  used to such loses in the past. The people who feel shame after loss are the ones who are relatively new in gambling and they want to hide themselves if they loss in gambling.

[omonuyak]

That is very serious and that is the major reason why I am afraid of gambling and I always gambled with the amount I can afford to lose.  I gambling many has really experienced bad conditions and sharing it like this will definitely encourage others.

[passwordnow]

I think you just felt ashamed all by yourself because your families doesn't know where have you been and what have you done, particularly in your kids. You feel ashame if your kids asking something to buy and you have nothing to give because you loss in such an addiction gambling.

As OP said we have other interpretations of 'walk of shame'. This kind of shame is totally going to through your heart if you can't give something for your kids because you have lost because of gambling. But base on the situation, his kids witnessed him to get into their house without anything to say because he came from a long walk of lost. Having this kind of shame from your wife and kids would get into their minds and everybody must learn from OP's lesson.

This is really a shameful one.You should always be responsible for whatever the consequences of your wrong doing.For me,i have been addicted to gambling too but still i managed to leave a fare for myself in going home.I think it's just a matter of discipline.We gamblers should always know our limits in gambling so that we will never go home pennyless.

Other gamblers just can't when the extreme addiction attacks. I know what it feel to be in that situation when you just want to disappear because of your mistake. Discipline should remain for gamblers and don't let your addiction affect your responsibility with your family. A small mistake takes big effect in some areas like this incident. Limiting yourself in gambling would be a reasonable step but the question if it's possible for those people that are on extreme situation?

[crzy]

That is very serious and that is the major reason why I am afraid of gambling and I always gambled with the amount I can afford to lose.  I gambling many has really experienced bad conditions and sharing it like this will definitely encourage others.

This is also the reason why I don’t gamble much because of getting loss, though it happened to me before when I have to go home without any money aside from my coins its really sad but I have to suffer for that and learn the important lesson, which is not to gamble if I can’t afford to lose.

[mersal]

Did anyone here have experience a walk of shame (Walking home since you have a loss all your gambling money in just one snap)? Well, It did happen to me once and I'll never do that again. It was the bad year for me (Peek of my addiction), I normally left my atm/credit card at home if I were to visit a casino and have enough money wih some changes for my stay, food, drink and my fare. The first time it happens to me is when I was so frustrated because I can't win up to point I already spent my allocated money for my fare. I was devastated that I need to go home at 3 a.m. with no money literally and I haven't got a phone in me (which make it worst). Started walking from the casino going home it was the longest walk I ever made I pity myself and upon arriving at home my wife and my kids are already awake, I just can't bare to look at them. I don't even know what to say at that point. I just walk in shame, in front of my kids.

How about you, have experienced it? We all have different interpretation on "Walk of shame".

This situation not been understand by saying some words it is about feeling how we can the at that situation when we lost all the money that we have in our hand without anything so at that time I will definitely be last the confident and more tension my wish is to be it will not happen for anyone at  anytime.

[ethereumhunter]

Yep I did it several times, but I don't have any kids or wife. At this time I just remember how many times I won and how many times lost, after that I understand that I won much often, so I'm getting better.

I think that is because of your inability to control yourself, all players will experience it if they have no control and get out of their
plans. the worst you will spend all your money at the casino, and go out with shame

If you spent all of your money in casino and lost of it, then you will not only feel shame in front of your wife and family but also it will be troublesome for you too as your money is lost and now how will you meet your daily expenses. In extreme cases, you have to take loan and it will further make your life tough.

I guess that he will have some conversation with his family and even the bad words will come out because he loses all of his money. That is what we will get if we are lost and we were telling to other people because not all people around us can accept for our lose and they can blame for what we've done. So maybe he can make a choice not to tells other people about his losses, but he doesn't need to play gambling again in the other days.

Again, I don't know if those people who are really addicted and have experienced the walk of shame has the willingness to tell their family what really happened. And I'm sure that you will hear every excuses in the book and will not admit that they have lost everything in a casino.

It's really hard to be addicted in gambling and unless you can control your emotions and will just play to have some fun, then you won't be experience this so called 'walk of shame'. It's hard and brutal and it is really painful to experience it.

I am sure that there will be one or more people who want to tell their family about what they've got on that day. I am sure that they will feel shame about that, but if they are very concern with their family, they need to tell and give an explanation so there will be no miscommunication between them.

I know what is shame feels like because I got that feeling too and not just in the gambling games. But in other things but I always say to my family what I've felt, and they said, it's okay with that, you don't have to make that thing again, and it's better to stay away or think before you want to do something.

[davinchi]

I am sure that there will be one or more people who want to tell their family about what they've got on that day. I am sure that they will feel shame about that, but if they are very concern with their family, they need to tell and give an explanation so there will be no miscommunication between them.

I know what is shame feels like because I got that feeling too and not just in the gambling games. But in other things but I always say to my family what I've felt, and they said, it's okay with that, you don't have to make that thing again, and it's better to stay away or think before you want to do something.

I personally have passed from such situation for so many time. But its really difficult to explain everything to your family. I really feel shame and hesitation to tell about such situation to my family. I always try to manage everything in a good manner and never let my family to know about my blunders. Very honestly I do not want my family to become upset because of my foolish decision and activities.