There are multiple options for you to consider if this is something you are concerned about. If you copy + paste the title of your thread into the search bar you will come up with some good threads about exactly what you're asking. There are tons of creative and secure ideas that are suggested throughout a few different topics discussing this.
You can do more reading here :
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=2208880.0and here :
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=1587610.0It primarily comes down to preference, location, relationship to the beneficiary and what is available in terms of resources to the original owner. I would throw you some examples, but I would just be repeating things already mentioned in both of these threads. If you have not read both of these threads (and potentially more), then I would suggest locking this thread and doing so until you have a better grasp on the information already available on this topic. You have already received incorrect statements in this thread about this, there are lawyers that will assist you with this, because Bitcoin is not contraband nor is it illegal (depending where you are from).
I see you're pretty new, so if locking/unlocking a topic is not something you are familiar with then you can read more about that here :
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=2841800.0