Fake Friends

[DrYe5]

As funny as it might sound you need to have both "fake" and good friends. How to see who is who, only time can tell.

Don't forget also a fact that people change. This is not made up thing, every atom in our body changes in about span of 3-5 years so do we.

An honest enemy is better than a false friend. When in doubt, pay more attention to what people do and less to what they say. Actions not only speak louder than words, they are more difficult to fake.

[Swinging Phallus]

As funny as it might sound you need to have both "fake" and good friends. How to see who is who, only time can tell.

Don't forget also a fact that people change. This is not made up thing, every atom in our body changes in about span of 3-5 years so do we.

An honest enemy is better than a false friend. When in doubt, pay more attention to what people do and less to what they say. Actions not only speak louder than words, they are more difficult to fake.

I liked that analogy.

To add to that (in my opinion) - In the end, all acquaintances in life are temporary. Relationships will always be fleeting in nature, because we are born alone and will eventually die alone. So when relationships end, see it as what it naturally was - Inevitable.
Some may say this is a bleak outlook, to value every relationship in life to its ending... but it isn't - at least to me because from those endings are new beginnings. The only concept that will never change in the universe is change itself.

[Fayefot]

I dont know if I should call her fake friend or a traitor or a snake. I treat her not just a bestfriend but a sister but one day I find out that she and my boyfriend are having an affair. Everytime i remembered i still felt the pain.

[Laokong]

Now a days many people that disguised as a friend all of them are fakes, when you needed them , theyre like a bubble that suddenly gone you know what i mean? , i know that we all have experience something like this , or a fake friends.

My experience is when you do everything just to help that person and in the end there is no return, well i dont wish to have any return but, when you actually need a favor or a return theyre gone. Just like a bubble floating in the air that suddenly pop up *pop* they're gone without a sigle thought.

Share your experience i would like to hear , i know that we all have an experience to this, dont be shy to share it.

Sometimes it's good thing to have fake people in this world.
It helps you find out who your real friends are.

[Sidiq SP]

we live a life that can not be separated from the problems we face, at times like that, we need friends to share and tell stories and help us when we worm off, but generally they go away and as if do not know and ignore us, but that's when I need it, lots of fake friends and pretending to be close at the time we are happy and happy, but only a few are there when we really need them, that's a bit of my experience about fake friends who pretend good with us

[Palider]

Now a days many people that disguised as a friend all of them are fakes, when you needed them , theyre like a bubble that suddenly gone you know what i mean? , i know that we all have experience something like this , or a fake friends.

My experience is when you do everything just to help that person and in the end there is no return, well i dont wish to have any return but, when you actually need a favor or a return theyre gone. Just like a bubble floating in the air that suddenly pop up *pop* they're gone without a sigle thought.

Share your experience i would like to hear , i know that we all have an experience to this, dont be shy to share it.

Well to be honest its sad , we have the same story though , its hard right? , sometimes you cry in the night thinking why they stabbing you , why they talking s*** behind your back , sometimes you cant swear them though, for me they abused me , not because im kind . But i feel you though , and remember there are tons of people around you that will help and show you the true meaning of friend.  And now i have true friends and im cherishing them, i hope you too.

[cristin]

False friends will not be concerned about the problems that beset You. They just want You to hear him. Ever feel like You have a lot of friends but You don't feel they really exist? Several times You told me about Your difficulties, they don't respond like a friend. As a result, You still feel lonely even though they always label themselves as Your friends. When sharing stories, giving suggestions or solutions are not primary.

[kingjoe]

most people actually pretend to be what they are not. my personal experience was horrible. i always think that people can have a little sense of dignity and respect for others. but unfortunately the reverse has always been the case

[shizzle_my_nizzle]

If you're not sure, test them.
Otherwise just open your eyes and look at how they treat other people, especially the ones they can't get anything from.
And listen to your deeper gut feeling about people, it is highly accurate.

[Chulahk]

Fake friends are everywhere. Sometimes it also hard to distinguish who are fake and true friends.  Because most of the fake one are those who are good actors/actress. You will not know their true colors unless the situation revealed it to you.

So if you find true friends then treasure them.  At this time,  it's really hard to find true friends.. 

Yes indeed. True friends are rare. All of us need a true friends just because everyone of us needs true happiness to remember to someone special. A true friend is always by your side, in good times or in bad times. They will always help you in times of failures and being depress. Treasure your friends so they will treasure you as well.

[Pornporn05]

Now a days many people that disguised as a friend all of them are fakes, when you needed them , theyre like a bubble that suddenly gone you know what i mean? , i know that we all have experience something like this , or a fake friends.

My experience is when you do everything just to help that person and in the end there is no return, well i dont wish to have any return but, when you actually need a favor or a return theyre gone. Just like a bubble floating in the air that suddenly pop up *pop* they're gone without a sigle thought.

Share your experience i would like to hear , i know that we all have an experience to this, dont be shy to share it.

i was recently engage in a situation wherein a friend is just taking advantage from all the benefits she can get,  and in return,  i finally got fed up and blurted out all the benefits she was used to or was expecting from me all of a sudden due to anger... after that  it turns out i was the bad guy,  wherein fact during the time that she was enjoying all the benefits and considerations she's rcieving she doesn't even think of the hassle and inconvenience she's putting me to,  and when i needed her i can nvr turn to her at all,  she's got all these reasons and so fort... now i burnt that bridge and dont want to have any connections with her at all since i know for a fact in the first place she never considered me as a friend but someone that she can take advantage of... its not that im expecting something in return as well,  its just that you'll get to a point where you will see and realize if a person is a friend or just using you as a friend

[camito]

Everyone has fake friends, i guess, there are bunch of fake friends out there and maybe the one closest to you is the real fake friends of yours. They are just there whenever they think they'll benefit from you (money, foods, or just because your intelligent or beautiful) this fake friends of yours will just leave you behind and be gone in just a blink of an eye without a single word and act just like they don't know you after getting what they wanted. This is the reason why it is much better to have few friends but the reals ones than having lot of friends but "fake friends". Even the one you considered as your "best friend" is your "best fake friend", you should be careful of choosing your friend cause who might know that the one you care the most is the one who "hates" you the most.

[Dorion2124]

Now a days many people that disguised as a friend all of them are fakes, when you needed them , theyre like a bubble that suddenly gone you know what i mean? , i know that we all have experience something like this , or a fake friends.

My experience is when you do everything just to help that person and in the end there is no return, well i dont wish to have any return but, when you actually need a favor or a return theyre gone. Just like a bubble floating in the air that suddenly pop up *pop* they're gone without a sigle thought.

Share your experience i would like to hear , i know that we all have an experience to this, dont be shy to share it.

Yes all of us has a fake friends, they are your friends if they need something but if they didnt need you, they dont know you! Snake friends are also there beside you, you dont know that they are stabbing you at your back, talking at your back with other person, saying your negative attitude. I dont get it why they are like that, maybe there are getting some attention to other people so that they are good to other.

[Pancheng]

Some friend usually remember you when they needed things like money or any other things but that's what make you're friends, helping each other when in times of need, so when you need some help too try to ask them especially when it is the same, if he helps you big or little that's a real friend, but if he give you reasons then you know what are they.

[lsokalski]

Yeah i know what you mean. I have friends like you have. Theyre always asked about borrowing money on you. But theyre not gonna pay you. Of course youre gonna be shy to asked about the money. I want to wait until theyre gonna pay me. Then you already know what kind a friendship you have.

[Cling18]

Now a days many people that disguised as a friend all of them are fakes, when you needed them , theyre like a bubble that suddenly gone you know what i mean? , i know that we all have experience something like this , or a fake friends.

My experience is when you do everything just to help that person and in the end there is no return, well i dont wish to have any return but, when you actually need a favor or a return theyre gone. Just like a bubble floating in the air that suddenly pop up *pop* they're gone without a sigle thought.

Share your experience i would like to hear , i know that we all have an experience to this, dont be shy to share it.

It is hard to get rid of fake friends specially if were trying to be nice towards the people around us. There are really people who are pretencious and hiding their true identity no matter how good we are towards them. What we need to do about that is just to choose the people we trust and always have the courage to know people better.

[neya]

Hmm.. Fake friends, I once has friends I put all my trust in them, I treat them like my own blood but at the end they betrayed my trust..no more friends now I'm on my own.. I can't trust anybody any more

So sad but to have true friends can makes your life happy.you have shoulder to cry on someone that you can tell about your problems.not all people are the same i know you can find also someone that you  can give trust.

[Mainman08]

I have some bad experienced with my friends also. Some of my friend just know me if they need something from me. But if they don't need anything they are gone. Real friends are hard to find. They are like treasures. So if we find them we need to takecare of them so they will take care of us too.

[automail]

I hate those people who will only be your friend when they are in need. Yes you are right, they are called fake friends. People who will just take advantage of you whenever they needed something or they have a favor to ask. Most of the time I will help them because that who I am but I hate the feeling when they just disappear once they achieved their gold. I am not asking for anything in return but at least be there and talk like were real friends.

[w33man]

I think it is really difficult to find true friends nowadays. Most people try to be close to someone who they think will give benefit to them. Most people choose to be friend with someone where they can get an advantage. The best thing to do is just to be friends with anyone but never trust everyone.