Fake Friends

[cr_liev]

I don't know what real friendship is and I don't know if I ever was a good friend. When I was young, I used to get used to one person and do everyhting for her/him, and I was very jealous when she/he spent time in another company. Then I changed many communities like in the university, at work and so on and it's more difficult to built a strong friendship. For now, I believe that we can only count on ourselves and don't expect that others will help us... In the same time we should ask for help when we need it. Sometimes people may turn out not so bad 

[Babylon]

Now a days many people that disguised as a friend all of them are fakes, when you needed them , theyre like a bubble that suddenly gone you know what i mean? , i know that we all have experience something like this , or a fake friends.

My experience is when you do everything just to help that person and in the end there is no return, well i dont wish to have any return but, when you actually need a favor or a return theyre gone. Just like a bubble floating in the air that suddenly pop up *pop* they're gone without a sigle thought.

Share your experience i would like to hear , i know that we all have an experience to this, dont be shy to share it.

Well now a days its been so much tough though to have or to find a true friend. But i have some friends that been true to me to help and to support me , amd someday you will encounter that , some day there is a friend who can help you and motivate you in many ways. God too will help you and , to be honest if i have some problem God is our number one best friend.

[cramcram21]

There are lots of them out there they would only know you when they need something from you and would forget you when they don't need you anymore,
There are some who would just comfort you because they know that they could get something from you ,
Some people would only know you when you have money and they could use you but when you are a nobody they wouldn't stick around or hang out with you.
So for me I think you shouldn't trust anyone so easily .

[s0beit]

Now a days many people that disguised as a friend all of them are fakes, when you needed them , theyre like a bubble that suddenly gone you know what i mean? , i know that we all have experience something like this , or a fake friends.

My experience is when you do everything just to help that person and in the end there is no return, well i dont wish to have any return but, when you actually need a favor or a return theyre gone. Just like a bubble floating in the air that suddenly pop up *pop* they're gone without a sigle thought.

Share your experience i would like to hear , i know that we all have an experience to this, dont be shy to share it.

Always choose whom you should trust. It's a sad fact that some people nowadays are pretencious and some of them are hiding their true personality. I believe that it is better if you will get to know the person well before giving your full trust. Also, you should limit sharing personal matters about your life.

[BroganBloodstone]

Now a days many people that disguised as a friend all of them are fakes, when you needed them , theyre like a bubble that suddenly gone you know what i mean? , i know that we all have experience something like this , or a fake friends.

My experience is when you do everything just to help that person and in the end there is no return, well i dont wish to have any return but, when you actually need a favor or a return theyre gone. Just like a bubble floating in the air that suddenly pop up *pop* they're gone without a sigle thought.

Share your experience i would like to hear , i know that we all have an experience to this, dont be shy to share it.

Sadly I have experienced this once. Don't feel comfortable sharing the full story, but in the end I just phased him out of my life. I have no time for people who think the world revolves around them.

[ymirymir]

Now a days many people that disguised as a friend all of them are fakes, when you needed them , theyre like a bubble that suddenly gone you know what i mean? , i know that we all have experience something like this , or a fake friends.

My experience is when you do everything just to help that person and in the end there is no return, well i dont wish to have any return but, when you actually need a favor or a return theyre gone. Just like a bubble floating in the air that suddenly pop up *pop* they're gone without a sigle thought.

Share your experience i would like to hear , i know that we all have an experience to this, dont be shy to share it.

Fake friends might have a lot of negative effects in our lives. We must learn how to get rid of them. I think knowing the person well would be a helpful way to avoid unnecessary people in our lives. We must know the people that we deal with very well before trusting them because some of them aren't real.

[Kolya albina]

my experience.

I once felt what you felt, when we were happy or when we won them there, but they were not there when we got off. Friends like that I have left.

now the friends I'm with are there when I win or slump.

You need to be more careful to make friends, try to better recognize your friend's personality.

[GideonGono]

Now a days many people that disguised as a friend all of them are fakes, when you needed them , theyre like a bubble that suddenly gone you know what i mean? , i know that we all have experience something like this , or a fake friends.

My experience is when you do everything just to help that person and in the end there is no return, well i dont wish to have any return but, when you actually need a favor or a return theyre gone. Just like a bubble floating in the air that suddenly pop up *pop* they're gone without a sigle thought.

Share your experience i would like to hear , i know that we all have an experience to this, dont be shy to share it.

Well my experience is kinda same like yours , and i think all of us has been experience like this when you need them no one will save you but when they need you , you know what i mean? , we cant erase them all of the sudden , its part of living that we would positively encounter some fake friends, even there is fake there is true dont forget that there are some who is willing to help and support , i know its hard to find them but if you have it cherish it.

[Cozy_girl05]

True friends are always there for you. Fake friends only appear when they need something from you. Time passes and you begin to see people for who they really are and not who they pretend to be. Respect people who find time for you in their busy schedule. But love people who never look at their schedule when you need them. Life is much too short to waste time on people who don’t really care for us deep down.

[princess.tyche]

I guess that fake friends only appear or usually appear around rich people. They praised you when you were rich, take you for granted, enjoyed every little thing you had for their own good, but when you were down you got no one who helped you out. They just dissapeared. Real friends are hard to get. So be grateful for what you've got, cherished your friendship, always be there for them. Because the older we are, the harder we get real friends that stick with us no matter what.

[rmoto]

I had a friend with whom I was friends for 3 years, I thought that his best friend. Often helped him and helped out in different situations. But when I ask him to help me, he always pretends to be busy. Once I asked him to come with me (no matter where) he said that he could not because he felt bad. When I went I met him with another company. Since then I have not been friends

[Hans17]

Appreciate the comments and reply guys , and thank you for keeping the thread alive.

I had a friend with whom I was friends for 3 years, I thought that his best friend. Often helped him and helped out in different situations. But when I ask him to help me, he always pretends to be busy. Once I asked him to come with me (no matter where) he said that he could not because he felt bad. When I went I met him with another company. Since then I have not been friends

For rmoto thank you for sharing and btw , i feel you dude i often do his homeworks so that he cant be fail , but same as yours when i need him/her , he/she just gone like a bubble in the air that suddenly pop up , i was so angry that time , that i cant forget what my friend do to me , wait let me revise that a fake friend rather.

[songcici]

there's this friend that i truly cared about.. but then somehow she betrayed me just bcos someone said bad things about her and claiming that it was my words. she should've believed me tho. she started spilling personal things that i only tell her about and i pretended that i didnt hear about all those but in the end, she kept telling everything to that sneaky someone. she's so fake i can't ever trust her again.

[FlightyPouch]

Its better to stay single and strong than to keep fake friend and get weak

Though the world is truly cruel, you need some people who will help you and watch the things you are doing the reason you need some friends. Yes, you can take them all in yourself but in the end you will be looking at yourself alone and that will be really sad.

Observing your friends is a thing that must be done in order to know whether they will lead you to a wrong path. You must know what they like, you must know them so you can know whether they needed to be cautious with or to be stick with.

[diegz]

OP is to idealistic. That's normal in life, everything and every one come and go, and probably you are expecting something from them because you've done good to them.

In my experience, I don't have too many friends, no close friends except my brothers. It makes my life simple, no more spending too much because of peer pressure, no more late night gigs, no more drinking too much and best of all, no headache.

As we grow up, we should think about our stability and stop being dependent to anyone who could help us (friends and siblings). Trust me, it makes my life easier that way than having too many friends.

[Granxis]

All my friends are fake, yes I know that. I had better quality friendships, but there were some problems. I have good relations with my neighbors and relatives, but I always have distant relationships with my friends. If you want to make real friendships, give them time.

[stantpro]

You have to also disguise yourself as if you are finished to see how your
friends would react.A friend in need is a friend in deed.You choose your
friends by the strength of their character and not based on sentiments.
Once the chips are down, the pretenders shall abandon you completely and
go their separate ways.But a good friend shall stay and bear with you in trying
times or even help you out of the ugly situation.There are more fake friends everywhere.

[Kayla]

At college I had some friends. We were always together and ate together. He was unable economically, but we always understood him. Every time we ate, we often treated him, even when he wanted to borrow our motor that was filled gasoline full of motorcycles. One day we were disappointed that he chose his new friend. Just because of the better facilities offered by his new friend he changed friends. When we needed his help, there was always a reason to avoid it. We were disappointed, it turned out he just took advantage of us.

[DJCanh]

Time will show...
For example, the story from my colleague: she had fine (around 55$) because of her friend. And this friend said, "now, it's not because of me, it's your mistake!" and disappeard

[Porosh]

Yea, it's true. Fake friends are more dangerous than enemy. I had many bad experiences like this. I have done so many things for my friends and become culprit to my close ones instead of these i didn't say a single word to my friends but now I've no value in their eyes.