This is for all new folks to the Bitcoin scene.
If you are going to make a purchase that is not off of a website that has escrow built into it, like buying on this forum, or in a chat on an exchange, then
always Use escrow. If you are making a trade, and the person tells you that "you" will have to pay the fees, don't worry about it, there are people in this scene, that actually are legitimate and will offer themselves for escrow. Just make a topic, and ask. You will find that a lot of people here (Hero members, SR Members) will do it for you for no fees. You just need to make sure that the person is safe and trusted.
Here is a small list of escrow services that you can use as well:
http://btcrow.com/ - Only a 1.55% fee, which is very small
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=13270.0https://abescrow.com/ - only a 2% fee.
http://btc-asia.com/ - only a 1% fee.
That 1% is a very small price to pay, for your safety and peace of mind.
I recently had a horrible expierence with a seller named Avalonlove, and lost 3BTC because of it.
So, please, and I cannot stress this enough, please
always use escrow!Regards,
--GoR--