Why are you using Bfgminer and mining_proxy.exe? They both (can) do the same thing, so you only need one.
First things first, which pool are you mining on, slush? You do have the username and password they provide on the configuration page of the blade, right? The pool IP address (on the blade config) should be the IP address of the PC running BFG/mining proxy. You need to list the pool IP, port (8332 when using mining_proxy) and user/pass listed twice, separated by a comma (I think.)
Hopefully that gets you started, posting screenshots of your BFGminer config or the output of mining-proxy, as well as a screenshot of the blade config page would help if this doesn't get you going.
Thanks for the reply.
I downloaded a few different miners some of which need the stratum proxy... it's good to know that bfgminer doesn't need it.
The blade is pointed the IP address of the pc running bfgminer.
Yes, I was attempting to connect to slush, I have the port set to 8332 and i did enter the user/pass twice separated by a comma.
My orginal post has a link to a screenshot.
At this point I really dont care which miner/proxy/pool i connect to, i just want to start mining and worry about changing pools later.
I heard that slush was a good pool and easy for beginners to connect to so I tried that first.
I am open to running different software and/or connecting to a different pool if that would speed up the process.