You have to wait.
Transactions are not instant.
Transactions are instant. Confirmations aren't
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If the transaction wasn't sent with a miner's fee, it'll take a really long time for it to be added to a block.
We have never seen the transaction in question since it never got transmitted so we do not know what fee would have been added had it been transmitted.
Yeah I don't think it was ever sent. The Multibit wallet was all screwed up. When I reset the Blockchain and transactions in Multibit it lost 4 BTC from the balance and that pending transaction disappeared. BUT Blockchain.info had the full correct balance recorded in my addresses including the balance of that pending transaction! I just swept the private key for the screwed up multibit addresses and got all my money back and in one place! Phew...
I still don't understand how Multibit screwed up so bad. I think I need another wallet client. I have lost trust in Multibit now.
Anyone have any suggestions for a more reliable wallet client?