That's what my wallet wants to charge me?? I just wanted to send a total of 0.09 btc
That's like 12 dollars.
Can anyone explain?
Perhaps you've accumulated a lot of dust outputs making the size of your transactions very large, thus the large fee.
What's a "dust output"?
I've only ever send bitcoin a few times. Transactions were around 1 to 3 btc in size.
Like coins from faucets etc.
EDIT:Just checked your signature and it's indeed full of very tiny outputs.
Thanks for clarifying, yes I stopped mining btc a while back and just play with the faucets occassionally.
If I hold what is in there for a while will that fee decrease, or will it stay as is?
While miners do prefer older coins, the fee will not change. You can try to consolidate those outputs little by little, but how, I can't help you there.