You can't trust anyone on this site. TradeFortress was in the default trust here, and he managed to screw a shit ton of folks over. Funny thing is, they still didn't remove him from the default trust. Always use a very established escrow. Do big deals in person.
This place is, as they say in IRC channels, a cesspool and will certainly become irrelevant as bitcoin becomes more mainstream and established. Perhaps that's why theymos gave it the big fuck you and decided to keep the donations.