What was the dumbest thing you did for love?

[Frost000]

Moved to a another country I disliked for 2 years.

Dang. What country? And why? What was the thought process behind that?

I think that when you're in love, sometimes there is no thought process. At least it feels accurate in my case.

One of my exes... I honestly have no clue why I got with her and why it even lasted a year and a half. Truly a horrible and crazy (not just regular lady crazy) person.

Yeah, I know what you mean. Seriously.

The thing I posted up earlier is actually a true story for me. I tried making it work, but it didn't. Sometimes I feel like I got the short end of the stick though. Really wished it was over before we got a place together and I bought a ring and put down money for our future and stuff. Sometimes we humans are so ridiculous.

"Love... It's a motherfucker."

I feel you. I could've done so much more with my time had it not been for that particular ex. I even ended up house sitting her shitty apartment (complete with two cats; I hate cats) while she was off fucking some other dude on a film set for a month. I'm generalizing, but it's all truth.

Though now I'm happy! With the woman of my dreams, she's crazy about me but not crazy on her own. Pretty great!

[joethejudge77]

When we were both drunk I was trying to light her sig and put her gorgeous hair on fire. Loved her like mad.

[Holliday]

Trusted someone.

[hilariousandco]

When we were both drunk I was trying to light her sig and put her gorgeous hair on fire. Loved her like mad.

Did she dump you after you tried to combust her?

[EvilPanda]

Moved to a another country I disliked for 2 years.

Dang. What country? And why? What was the thought process behind that?

I think that when you're in love, sometimes there is no thought process. At least it feels accurate in my case.

One of my exes... I honestly have no clue why I got with her and why it even lasted a year and a half. Truly a horrible and crazy (not just regular lady crazy) person.

Yeah, I know what you mean. Seriously.

The thing I posted up earlier is actually a true story for me. I tried making it work, but it didn't. Sometimes I feel like I got the short end of the stick though. Really wished it was over before we got a place together and I bought a ring and put down money for our future and stuff. Sometimes we humans are so ridiculous.

"Love... It's a motherfucker."

I feel you. I could've done so much more with my time had it not been for that particular ex. I even ended up house sitting her shitty apartment (complete with two cats; I hate cats) while she was off fucking some other dude on a film set for a month. I'm generalizing, but it's all truth.

Though now I'm happy! With the woman of my dreams, she's crazy about me but not crazy on her own. Pretty great!

Damn, sounds like she was a porn star
I read a story in the news of a guy who went abroad to work for a year and left his wife to take care of their kids. He earned a lot and decided that he'll send her the money and she'll start with building the house so no time is wasted. She was sending him back tpictures of the land she bought and the house being built so he continued to send the money. When he finally came back, found out she already filed divorce papers and was screwing another guy while he was gone. The house and land were fake and she just spent the it all with her lover.

[hellscabane]

"Love... It's a motherfucker."

I feel you. I could've done so much more with my time had it not been for that particular ex. I even ended up house sitting her shitty apartment (complete with two cats; I hate cats) while she was off fucking some other dude on a film set for a month. I'm generalizing, but it's all truth.

Though now I'm happy! With the woman of my dreams, she's crazy about me but not crazy on her own. Pretty great!

Glad to hear that! I know that sometimes we have to face adversity first and stumble a bunch before we find our greatest story. Always glad to hear of times when in the end it's great. It just sucks for me because I wanted to believe that I had already found it. Oh well.

I'm still fairly raw with my issue (she's still yet to move all of her stuff out, but I gave her an ultimatum of two more weeks to get all her stuff out) so it's focus on me time! I've cut her and my former "best friend" out of my life and doing things that make me happy. I hope it ends up well for me too in the end!

[Frost000]

Damn, sounds like she was a porn star
I read a story in the news of a guy who went abroad to work for a year and left his wife to take care of their kids. He earned a lot and decided that he'll send her the money and she'll start with building the house so no time is wasted. She was sending him back tpictures of the land she bought and the house being built so he continued to send the money. When he finally came back, found out she already filed divorce papers and was screwing another guy while he was gone. The house and land were fake and she just spent the it all with her lover.

Definitely not a porn star. The worst part is that the sex actually sucked... Whenever it actually DID happen.

Horrible story...

Glad to hear that! I know that sometimes we have to face adversity first and stumble a bunch before we find our greatest story. Always glad to hear of times when in the end it's great. It just sucks for me because I wanted to believe that I had already found it. Oh well.

I'm still fairly raw with my issue (she's still yet to move all of her stuff out, but I gave her an ultimatum of two more weeks to get all her stuff out) so it's focus on me time! I've cut her and my former "best friend" out of my life and doing things that make me happy. I hope it ends up well for me too in the end!

Well, the story is far from over and plenty can happen, but the past 2 years or so have been bliss. No fighting, just mini arguments and quick compromises.

Focusing on you is definitely the best thing to do right now. If you can afford out, get out there and do shit you've never done. Do them alone. Go on an adventure that scares you. Self-discovery is most rewarding when we're alone and kicking ass.

[yayayo]

Begging her to accept my apologies for being not sensitive enough while she was already ridin' someone else's cxxx...    

ya.ya.yo!

[pakotako]

Spent all my money on her.

[n00ber]

Spend all my money and time for nothing. What I got is depression.

[hellscabane]

Damn, sounds like she was a porn star
I read a story in the news of a guy who went abroad to work for a year and left his wife to take care of their kids. He earned a lot and decided that he'll send her the money and she'll start with building the house so no time is wasted. She was sending him back tpictures of the land she bought and the house being built so he continued to send the money. When he finally came back, found out she already filed divorce papers and was screwing another guy while he was gone. The house and land were fake and she just spent the it all with her lover.

Definitely not a porn star. The worst part is that the sex actually sucked... Whenever it actually DID happen.

Horrible story...

Glad to hear that! I know that sometimes we have to face adversity first and stumble a bunch before we find our greatest story. Always glad to hear of times when in the end it's great. It just sucks for me because I wanted to believe that I had already found it. Oh well.

I'm still fairly raw with my issue (she's still yet to move all of her stuff out, but I gave her an ultimatum of two more weeks to get all her stuff out) so it's focus on me time! I've cut her and my former "best friend" out of my life and doing things that make me happy. I hope it ends up well for me too in the end!

Well, the story is far from over and plenty can happen, but the past 2 years or so have been bliss. No fighting, just mini arguments and quick compromises.

Focusing on you is definitely the best thing to do right now. If you can afford out, get out there and do shit you've never done. Do them alone. Go on an adventure that scares you. Self-discovery is most rewarding when we're alone and kicking ass.

Definitely! I am planning on finally travelling once I can square away my finances and find a second person to split my place with. I'll probably cash out some of the investments that I have, and go from there.

I hope things go well for you! If the last two years have been bliss for you, you may have found your greatest story (and a great story is always worth keeping)!

[hellscabane]

Spend all my money and time for nothing. What I got is depression.

Not to be overly philosophic and stuff, but it might not be for nothing if you end up on the other side, stronger, better and more awesome than you had even been before.

I hope that you got to that light at the end of the tunnel, because I'm still in that place trying to get to that light. Although, I know I'm closer with each day that goes by!

[Frost000]

I hope things go well for you! If the last two years have been bliss for you, you may have found your greatest story (and a great story is always worth keeping)!

I definitely hope so! We've got a big hurdle up ahead (semi-long distance as I might be in London while she'll be in Paris for a year) but if that simply comes and goes, then we'll definitely be set for longterm afterwards... At least that's the plan!

Good luck!