AsicMiner/friedcat is only dealing with direct shares, and he will not transfer your shares to Havelock.
Then who has been transferring shares to me all this time!?!
OP, my guess is only Bitfunder can help you to verify what you owned, what address was associated with it, and confirm as much to Friedcat, if there is indeed a problem.
Once BF confirms what you help and the wallet address attached to it, you could sign a message to prove ownership.
We've only had one person claim to be on the list of stranded G.ASIC holders that wasn't actually on the list, so I assume you're the same guy.
If you believe you should be on the list, only Bitfunder can resolve that part.