- Make accusations at the public and potential customers
I assume you're talking about what you wrote a bit later on. I will address that in a short while.
- Blame bitcoind for something that has been well known for over a year (larger fee increases odds of fast confirmation)
It's not blaming bitcoind. It just used to be the case that the fees didn't matter much and they always seemed to go in rapidly. Things have changed and delays are more likely so it's more important.
- Fail to inform customers that transactions will be delayed
This is something we've only noticed to any significant degree over the last week or so actually because a few nice customers that mentioned it. The problem was thus not identified 4 weeks ago so I will not quote that bulletpoint of yours.
There is nothing personal here.
Personal wasn't the best word. I really meant going beyond a discussion of technical aspects and turning towards insults including you saying that we don't know what we're doing. Statements like that turn the discussion away from facts. The rest of your statement about free markets etc. is of course true and I agree.
Implying that I am not educated in how the bitcoin protocol works
I think this was phrased something in a confusing way - it sounded like you were saying that transactions without fees always take longer when this isn't necessarily the case. Let's put this down to text sometimes not being a great way of communicating so I'm happy to apologise if I misunderstood what you were saying.
implying that it was my responsibility as a consumer to tell Bittylicious that they should pay a fee
Well I still would argue that it would have been nice to email us about this. It would have helped us resolve the issue a lot quicker than happening to stumble across this thread.
I hope you don't mind but unless there is any further factual discussion to take place, the buyer is happy and we're adding fees from tomorrow so I'm happy to leave the conversation here.