Questions for dating

[Kaisar0]

Hello everyone, I think, All of us have had a moment when you haven’t known what to talk about with new people and the awkward silence lasted forever.

That is why I’ve decided to create this topic. I hope it will be useful to you. The most important thing is not to be ashamed to ask questions, people like to talk about themselves.

Advice: try to create new questions from one. For example:
A: Can you play musical instruments?
B: …
A: Why have you chosen this instrument?
B: …
A: How long have you been playing this instrument?
B: …
A: How have you learned to play?
B: …
A: …
B: …

In the beginning, I write some questions. If you like this topic, just write about it so I will understand that you are interested in this topic and periodically I will supplement this list. You also can write your interesting questions, if I like it, I will add it in the list and write your username.

1.   Introduce yourself. Tell me about your character, which positive and negative sides you have. Is there something in your character which you want to change?
2.   What do you do? For example, it is studying. Ask about a specialty. Why have you chosen this specialty? Do you regret your choice? About work is the same.
3.   What trait of character attracts you in people?
4.   Do you have a hobby? Tell me about it
5.   If you could visit three countries, which countries would you choose? Why have you chosen these ones?
6.   If you could live in any country, which one it would be? Why have you chosen this one?

I think that's enough for a start. If you like it, I will continue

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[Lotovichelli]

Why such an interesting topic did not get continued? This problem is relevant for many. I agree, it is for this that dating sites have come up, where men and women are looking for couples, relationships. Why not try such sites? I know https://www.wantmatures.com/ at least. Need to communicate, search and meet. I think sooner or later you will still find the very woman

[griffingregory337]

at the start yeah you'll find some dead air but as you progress, you find things that both of you like and similarities then the stories and talks will be endless. First start with favorites, talents, genre of movie or music, favorite academic subject and so many more

[cobbs87]

Its actually a great advice. Starting with a question that could really lead into something even more interesting stuffs. I havent really thought about it, I dont really know how to start a conversation. I think Ive been single for almost 5 years now. I think Ive lost touch on how to talk to girls I like. Dont really know how to approach them in not a creepy way you know LOL!!

[gonzalezdaryl]

That's good but honestly i don't do that. I start conversation naturally because that's me even though i'm nervous sometimes but it's good

[Lapatai]

I will try to express my opinion from the male side:

First of all, you have to believe in yourself, trust yourself and be self-confident. No lady likes when man is ashamed, shy or etc. Man has to be the leader, the control has to be in his hands.
Do someone remember himself asking a female "How to be attractive to girls?" and the answer was "Just be yourself". That means you need to be relaxed, full of confidence, like when you are with your best friends.

Okay, so the question is what to ask her in a date so that she can be relaxed. Simple, ask her about something that she has a good memories about. How was your trip to somewhere? I see you have a cat, what does it like? What was your happiest day? and I'll give you a hint, almost everyone has the best memories being a child, so ask her about her childhood, definitely the topic to be discussed for a long time  .

I hope I helped you somehow, if you have more questions, you can always PM me 

[Alyssaaaa]

What brings you joy? How do you like to spend your free time? What do you want to do now that the world is opening up? What's the best meal you've had this year?
Some basic questions will appear when you browse dating sites, such as the very popular https://bumbledating.org, I think you enter this dating site and you will find that by answering the questions, you can find people who are like you.

[mich]

These questions can certainly help you on a first date and land a second date.

What makes you who unique?
Do you have any pets?
If you’re on a dinner date, you can ask do you have any food allergies?
Tell me something random about you?
What is the furthest country you’ve traveled to?
What shows are you currently watching?
Who are the special people in your life?

[Y3shot]

Thanks for this , it is interesting.  I have leant from it, am very calm and quiet because of my nature I find it very difficult to start up good conversation whenever I am with opposite sex. This topic have thought me how to do things right.

[Dariona]

You need to work on yourself and not be shy to talk to people on the street. Sometimes, everyone just needs to talk. I think so)

[Maestro75]

Not everyone likes to talk. And those who are not talkative will find your questions too preying into their privacy on a first day. What I do is to let the environment we are meeting decide what we have to talk about. Talk brings talks. The way my date will respond to the discussion on our immediate environment will let me know what direction the discussion will head. If I discover the person is a food lover, I will begin to talk about recipes and cooking. If she is a sports person, we go that way and so on. I do not like going on date prepared. That backfires and am left speechless.

[kotajikikox]

That's good but honestly i don't do that. I start conversation naturally because that's me even though i'm nervous sometimes but it's good

but sometimes there are question that will bring us sign of being having same interest lol.

You need to work on yourself and not be shy to talk to people on the street. Sometimes, everyone just needs to talk. I think so)

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You need to work on yourself and not be shy to talk to people on the street. Sometimes, everyone just needs to talk. I think so)

and if that woman/man likes you there is no need for big action lol.

[DeathAngel]

You just need to be yourself, don’t try to be somebody you’re not. The worst thing you can do is try & put on a persona & the date end up being really awkward.

Just try to let it flow naturally, try & get to know her, ask her what she’s interested in, ask her what she does for a job, what she’s looking for in the dating scene.

You will be fine but remember there are lots of girls out there. If it doesn’t work out with the first one keep going.

[Marshall Chord]

It seems like great advice to help break the ice when you're chatting with someone new. Asking questions can really help to open up the conversation and get to know one another better.