Can I ask? We have the same situation.
A lot of people occasionally have the same situation where a transaction isn't instantly confirmed.
That's nothing unusual.
Is it a good thing or a bad thing for the transaction?
Uhm.. depends on how you look at it.
The transaction is not confirmed yet. So it is not fully completed yet.
It has been broadcasted, but has not been yet settled on the blockchain. Consider it as not final yet.
I am confused because some of my friends said it was okay and some say that I should transact high value as much as possible
This is fine. Your transaction will confirm earlier or later.
Even if it doesn't get confirmed, you still have the possibility to bump the fee (if you had RBF enabled when sending the transaction).
The 'friends' who say you should transact 'high value as much as possible' probably don't have a clue at all.
The value you transact is completely unrelated to the time it takes for your TX to be confirmed. This only depends on the fee rate (sat/B) and the amount of TX waiting to get confirmed)
Mark my words:
Most people talking to you.. don't have a clue at all what they are talking about.
It is always up to you to filter senseless rubbish out from actual true information.